Girl with peripherals: better to be a kept woman! Bashny.Net

Not completed the period of distribution of a small town girl comes from the regional center has returned to the capital, where it passed the training. Here she fictitiously married and started looking for a generous man who will help her pay the debt to the institution. "Lucky me, it did not, - says Alina (name changed). - However, the life of a hungry young specialist forced to value material wealth above all ».




"My distribution within 60 km from the capital, many fellow students felt" lucky ticket "- says Alina prehistory. - I myself thought so, until I saw your "office" suites at the hostel and colleagues. A misunderstanding arose from the early days. The main contingent of workers sanepidemstantsii - women with secondary special education. This CHE (Center for Hygiene and Epidemiology), my colleagues also approached retirement age. And then I came - a young, college-educated, among other things the doctor, then, in their view, standing above them in the social hierarchy. It begins with podkolok. Then I felt all the charm of living in serpentarium. On his salary was ashamed to tell even her mother, at the time of the collapse of the Belarusian ruble, the dollar rose to 8 thousand., Salary is 300 thousand. Per month. I had to find another job: every weekend (and sometimes weekdays) skated in Minsk, worked cloakroom attendant in a nightclub, to somehow make ends meet. Three months, I almost did not sleep ».



"At one point I decided I've had enough. It is necessary to radically change his life and get back to the capital, - says the girl. - And this must be redistributed. Problems should not occur, I have an internship by the time passed. Your holiday I spent in search of job hygienists in Minsk and trips the chain of command. However, despite the fact that I was prepared to gladly take a job in the capital CGE and even sent an inquiry, transfer did not take place: for it is not found grounds. It seemed that there was one way of fictitious marriage and residence. But the vacation was over. We had to figure out how to combine work with the search for her husband. I was lucky in a way: the court in September, the battle for the harvest ... Local farms are sending letters asking to send staff to help with harvesting beets. I volunteered to go. And in the evening I found a local grandmother, which is 5 thousand. Belarusian rubles a day will go to the field for me. There is no passport control. Introduce a false name is not a problem. Meanwhile, I lived in Minsk and looking for friends of the groom. As a result, a familiar friend found a middle-aged man who is ready to marry me - and, most importantly those in financially difficult times, completely free of self-pity, so to speak ».

"Just on my wedding day CHE Chief looking for me on the farm to sign some documents - not without a smile says a young doctor. - It is clear that it is our grandma scam failed miserably. I remember my boss's face was as red as a beet, which I was supposed to clean up. He even stamped his feet in anger when the work book threw me in the face. In general, I was fired by the paper "for truancy", otherwise it is impossible to dismiss young specialists. Colleagues gloated only so long until I told them that the day before she married the very wealthy man and redistributes capital Minsk. Only this fact enabled me to leave this "abode of sorrow" with her head held high. Especially for a triumphant departure even made a photo ».

"My expectations were not fulfilled, - the smile disappeared from his face Alina. - To redistribute again there was no reason to. It has not helped neither the husband nor the residence. A month later I received a letter from the requirement for six months to pay the money for tuition. I was lucky that the amount had not yet been linked to the new exchange rate of the US currency. It was necessary to return the university $ 5 thousand. Mom - already retired, raised me alone, help her count was not necessary. With the unspent allocation could not even get to the private owners. I was in despair. And I decided that was left no choice but to take advantage of what nature has given: youth and beauty. With their help, as well as millions of women at all times, to find a man who will pull me out of this debt bondage. And such a man was found. For the next five months, I was dependent on a married man older than me by 10 years. He promised to cover my debts. His wife and children lived in another city, and I - with it. Neighbors even thought we were family. He went to work, I was engaged in household: cooking, laundry, cleaning. And I was really in love with him. Up to a certain point, I even thought that we have with him is really something that can happen ».

"Finally, two weeks left until the end of the payment of money for education - said the girl - the first time we strongly quarreled. He showered me a lot of unpleasant things. About the fact that I had it really did not like about my commercialism commercialism and all women of the planet Earth. "Care with money or stay with me, but no money," - set a condition lover and went on holiday with his wife. I felt like an idiot, that trusted him. And I decided to choose the man, not the money. About what he said on the phone. In the end, do not kill me in the same university for the $ 5 thousand.? »



"On Monday, he brought me a receipt for the payment of debt for education - continues to Alina. - Then I have hope that we can become a real family. In vain. At the same time, he said that buying an apartment in Minsk and is going to live in it with his wife and child. I had three months to find a job and build his life without it. In return, he promised to help me to my feet and a couple of months has made $ 3 thousand. Prepaid for a year renting an apartment near the subway. Finally my boyfriend said that I "drank all the juice out of it." Our paths diverged. Get help on the free job placement, I found a job in the company, which sells ».

"I'll never work in medicine - confidently declares specialist. - Do not want to once again plunge into this miserable environment where all hate each other. Yes, and I'm too good man, I can not strangle people with exorbitant fines (for which he constantly listened to by the authorities). It's one thing when put on the shelves of expired products - this is no forgiveness, the other - the full fine of SanPiN (sanitary rules and norms) - half the town will just have to carry. Even during training practices manifest talents to work in the sanitary and epidemiological stations. And this is not my case. Sell ​​I like much more than "walking around with a whip" ».

"During this time, the former" sponsor "bought an apartment - sums up the woman from the periphery. - However, his wife demanded that in this apartment has been renovated and exceptionally chic new furniture. Moved to the capital, she was in no hurry. Perhaps that is why my ex-boyfriend appeared on the verge of it is to rent an apartment with a bouquet of roses and an apology. Love and financial support - that's what he promised me this time. At least until then, until you move to the wife. Then he plans to visit me sometimes. I take it. Although my feelings and tempered - I do not believe him. And if you thought earlier that a man should provide for his woman, after all happened a dream to achieve financial independence, so that no representative of the stronger sex could not use me as a toy. But so far there is only hope that this day will ever come. "