Top 10 mistakes that we make in the difficult task of educating our children Bashny.Net

1. We often treat their children as a superior to a subordinate, talk to them by fiat tone. But they are not our slaves, but our favorite and close friends, family and the most valuable.

2. Often, the parents too much forbid their children. And children are always in a limited state, can not take a step.

3. Parents are too categorical and uncompromising, force children to do what they do not like. Excessive strictness - may also affect negatively on the behavior of children.

4. Often, parents are not "hear" their children when they are something they are told, they say, or want to share something important.

5. Parents often frustrate their anger and irritation on their children, and the punishment is just not commensurate with the offense.

6. Parents are a child, like a little, and impose requirements, often as the ideal adult. Here a complete mismatch, which generates complexity.

7. Parents often glorify their own children, or allow him too much, and suddenly remember, when the child has become completely unmanageable, and that any change is already too late.

8. Often, parents do not keep to his word, do not fulfill the promise of their children, and then wonder why their children are beginning to lie to them.

9. Parents are often not interested in the views of the child, and believe their only true and correct. Many parents are constantly busy with their own affairs, and to the child and not at all the case.

10. Conflict of their children - parents often get in the sides, thus generate anger and anger of another child. The conflict can not be solved, and temporarily fades until next time, turning with renewed vigor.