In China, parents don’t talk to children because there are so many geniuses. Bashny.Net

Methods of education and education of children in China They are very different from the ones we use. Just the Chinese already at the stage of pregnancy plan how they will raise a genius from their child. It sounds ambitious, but do children have a happy childhood?



Editorial "Site" I decided to find out how parents in China raise their offspring.

The methods of raising children in China are based on total discipline and inviolable authority of parents. Children begin to learn from an early age. They learn the depths of science and learn to play musical instruments.

Even at preschool age, children begin to learn English. They go to dances and play chess. It is interesting that from an early age, a real patriot of their homeland is raised in a child. Propaganda contributes a lot to this.



Children don’t have time to relax. Parents understand that their child will face fierce competition in the future. That's why he needs to be the best. And for this, it is important to learn everything that can give a ticket to a happy future.

Whatever your child’s age, parents plan their day by the hour. Young Chinese people don’t have free time. School, sports clubs, clubs and other additional classes - that's what they constantly do.

In China, parents clearly understand that they are responsible for their children. And this applies to absolutely every area of life. School performance and homework are strictly monitored. You can easily get hurt in the neck. Physical punishment is not uncommon in China.



On the one hand, control is good. However, the Chinese do not care about the psychological state of their child. More important than his successes and achievements. Perhaps this is one of the main differences between our education system and the Chinese.

The Chinese system of education is aimed at cultivating in children diligence, perseverance and slowness. To achieve a qualitative result in any work, it is important to perform it thoughtfully, not hastily.



We have to give the Chinese credit. They know how to see potential in a child in a particular area of knowledge. And only then develop those qualities that can lead the child to success.

The Chinese people treat each other with great respect. However, older people are a firm authority in every family. This is what parents teach their children from an early age. Arguing with mom, dad, grandparents is unacceptable in Chinese families. Their word is law.

The word can refer to anything. For example, the search for a companion or life partner. If the parents did not like the choice of their child, the wedding will probably not happen.



It might seem wrong. After all, in our families, it is often customary to listen to the opinions of children and respect their choices, even if their parents do not like them. However, it is these principles of parenting that bind the Chinese, becoming a solid foundation for family relations.

This is especially true when older parents need help. Older children will never leave their father and mother in trouble. What can not be said about our realities, when relationships in families can be so bad that relatives completely cease to communicate.



In Chinese families, it is not customary to pay attention to a child when he cries. But for a smile you need to praise. The Chinese explain it this way. When a baby is crying, it is useless to talk to him. But after he stops crying, it is very important to explain to him why his crying is less effective than simple words.

Sometimes parents give their children for the upbringing of grandparents, if relatives have to live in different cities. When the child turns 5-6 years old and it is time to go to school, he returns to his parents.



I wonder if such methods of raising and educating children are harsh. Perhaps we need to adopt something from the Chinese system? Share your opinion in the comments!