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Why a good lesson can be learned from any situation
Betrayal is not without reason compared with a stab in the back, because it is not easy to survive such a shock. It is especially unpleasant when betrayed by loved ones. And how can we betray strangers whom we did not hope for, whom we did not open our souls to?
And today's edition. "Site" He wants to talk about it. How to survive the betrayal of a loved oneGoing through this difficult stage with minimal losses. I wonder what experts think about this.
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Trying to forgive betrayal, a person almost always makes the same mistake, which is caused by the wrong attitude to his own “I”. Where does the feeling of betrayal come from? Probably, from the fact that we associate ourselves with a person, mentally impose certain obligations on ourselves and on him. But is it right? asks Igumen Nectarius (Morozov).
“Do we have the right to demand of another what we demand of ourselves? You can ask yourself, but not from another person. This is not a business where we sign a contract with signatures and seals, specifying what you can and can not. This is a living life where everyone should act according to conscience, but not be an arbiter in relation to a foreign conscience.”
“Do we have any reason to demand fidelity and condemn him in whom we have failed to find that fidelity? Nope. People are not faithful to God, what about us? If you have deceived a person, if you thought of him better than he really is, then now that you have learned more, you can only accept it. He's free to be what he wants. It remains only to stand aside, not condemning, the dignitary is sure.
Can a man without suffering, betrayal? That's hardly possible. They say that if betrayed, then in this way send a person to develop, transfer to the next energy level, where through suffering he will discover new opportunities. Only through mental pain can we see the world more broadly.
We want to manage every day, every minute, and when plans fail, we begin to suffer. But at the same time life itself pushes us to stop standing still. Something just makes you take a canvas and paint to start painting in a new way.
Betrayal is not only a chance to admit into your life more worthy and consistent with your values, it is also an opportunity to overcome fear and tension, open yourself to the world, accept the confidence that there is a lot of good ahead and everything changes for the better.
And today's edition. "Site" He wants to talk about it. How to survive the betrayal of a loved oneGoing through this difficult stage with minimal losses. I wonder what experts think about this.
452680
Trying to forgive betrayal, a person almost always makes the same mistake, which is caused by the wrong attitude to his own “I”. Where does the feeling of betrayal come from? Probably, from the fact that we associate ourselves with a person, mentally impose certain obligations on ourselves and on him. But is it right? asks Igumen Nectarius (Morozov).
“Do we have the right to demand of another what we demand of ourselves? You can ask yourself, but not from another person. This is not a business where we sign a contract with signatures and seals, specifying what you can and can not. This is a living life where everyone should act according to conscience, but not be an arbiter in relation to a foreign conscience.”
“Do we have any reason to demand fidelity and condemn him in whom we have failed to find that fidelity? Nope. People are not faithful to God, what about us? If you have deceived a person, if you thought of him better than he really is, then now that you have learned more, you can only accept it. He's free to be what he wants. It remains only to stand aside, not condemning, the dignitary is sure.
Can a man without suffering, betrayal? That's hardly possible. They say that if betrayed, then in this way send a person to develop, transfer to the next energy level, where through suffering he will discover new opportunities. Only through mental pain can we see the world more broadly.
We want to manage every day, every minute, and when plans fail, we begin to suffer. But at the same time life itself pushes us to stop standing still. Something just makes you take a canvas and paint to start painting in a new way.
Betrayal is not only a chance to admit into your life more worthy and consistent with your values, it is also an opportunity to overcome fear and tension, open yourself to the world, accept the confidence that there is a lot of good ahead and everything changes for the better.
