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She put her aunt in her house, helped with her work, but everything turned into a family curse.
Relatives and apartment It is an eternal topic for discussion, especially when the family is large and there is not enough housing for everyone. Anna knows firsthand what it is. Recently, a woman invited her aunt, a forced migrant, to live with her. However, new difficulties loomed on the horizon: the heroine’s father fell ill. How Anna will get out of all the problems, read further in the article.
When the first explosions thundered in Odessa, I immediately called my aunt and called her to me. Marina has two children. This year, Nastyusha and Vanechka went to the first class. I knew I was taking on a lot of responsibility. But I just couldn't do otherwise.
My husband and I live in a 3-room apartment. There should have been enough room for everyone. I was very afraid for my relatives. I have had a special bond with my aunt since childhood. So I immediately decided for myself: if something goes wrong, I will do everything to move my family to Kiev.
My aunt agreed immediately. She knew she had nowhere else to go. Her husband passed away a couple of years ago. She pulled out children herself, worked 2 jobs. When the war began, all this was gone. I felt I had to help Marina. Who if not me?
Everything was great at first. My aunt and I started choosing a school for our children. It was most convenient to arrange them in the same educational institution where my Julia goes. That's what we did.
My husband and I found a job for my aunt. She said she was ready to do whatever it took. Of course, I didn't plan on charging Marina for rent or anything like that. We agreed that my aunt would join us in the communal room. That was enough.
New problems in life and everything seemed good. The children went to school, life gradually went on. But recently my father, who lives in a village near Kiev, reported that he was seriously ill. So much so that he needs to spend some time in the hospital in the city. And then it is desirable to be in the apartment under supervision.
Of course, he called me first. First of all, he needed money. Secondly, my help during rehabilitation. He did not have an apartment in Kiev, so he could only stay here.
How can I say no to my own father? I started thinking about the best thing to do. In our apartment lives an aunt with children, me, my husband and our daughter. That's 6 people. Considering we had three, we should have had enough space. Well, a stretch, but still.
When I announced that my father was moving in soon, Aunt Marina was outraged. The thing is, they always had a strained relationship with my father. A couple of years ago they had a serious quarrel and have not spoken since.
Marina said that she would not live under the same roof with my father. Like, I have to say no. I'm speechless. After everything my husband and I have done for her. By the way, he was present at this scene, and he really didn’t like it.
He said, “We’ve brought you here, we’ve paid for you, we don’t charge you for rent.” My wife spins like a squirrel in a wheel to make sure you and your kids are okay. Do you think you can still play the game? ?
Relatives and Ostap's apartment are gone! You better not know what happened next. I've never heard so many screams in our apartment. The children were not at home. My aunt was very offended, called us petty and mercantile.
I don't know how to solve this problem. Auntie can't come home now. And the kids are just getting into a new school. And I won't say no to my father. At least crack it!
Life Wisdom: What does this story teach us? As rude as it may sound, sometimes relatives need to be put in their place. It's easy to sit on someone else's neck and hang up their legs. Sometimes people do not know how to be grateful for the help that others give them. It’s time for the aunt to remember where she is and why it happened.
The time is now that you need to hold on to each other, to help, not to clarify the relationship. And if Marina does not like something, she has the right to move out and live separately. What do you think?
When the first explosions thundered in Odessa, I immediately called my aunt and called her to me. Marina has two children. This year, Nastyusha and Vanechka went to the first class. I knew I was taking on a lot of responsibility. But I just couldn't do otherwise.
My husband and I live in a 3-room apartment. There should have been enough room for everyone. I was very afraid for my relatives. I have had a special bond with my aunt since childhood. So I immediately decided for myself: if something goes wrong, I will do everything to move my family to Kiev.
My aunt agreed immediately. She knew she had nowhere else to go. Her husband passed away a couple of years ago. She pulled out children herself, worked 2 jobs. When the war began, all this was gone. I felt I had to help Marina. Who if not me?
Everything was great at first. My aunt and I started choosing a school for our children. It was most convenient to arrange them in the same educational institution where my Julia goes. That's what we did.
My husband and I found a job for my aunt. She said she was ready to do whatever it took. Of course, I didn't plan on charging Marina for rent or anything like that. We agreed that my aunt would join us in the communal room. That was enough.
New problems in life and everything seemed good. The children went to school, life gradually went on. But recently my father, who lives in a village near Kiev, reported that he was seriously ill. So much so that he needs to spend some time in the hospital in the city. And then it is desirable to be in the apartment under supervision.
Of course, he called me first. First of all, he needed money. Secondly, my help during rehabilitation. He did not have an apartment in Kiev, so he could only stay here.
How can I say no to my own father? I started thinking about the best thing to do. In our apartment lives an aunt with children, me, my husband and our daughter. That's 6 people. Considering we had three, we should have had enough space. Well, a stretch, but still.
When I announced that my father was moving in soon, Aunt Marina was outraged. The thing is, they always had a strained relationship with my father. A couple of years ago they had a serious quarrel and have not spoken since.
Marina said that she would not live under the same roof with my father. Like, I have to say no. I'm speechless. After everything my husband and I have done for her. By the way, he was present at this scene, and he really didn’t like it.
He said, “We’ve brought you here, we’ve paid for you, we don’t charge you for rent.” My wife spins like a squirrel in a wheel to make sure you and your kids are okay. Do you think you can still play the game? ?
Relatives and Ostap's apartment are gone! You better not know what happened next. I've never heard so many screams in our apartment. The children were not at home. My aunt was very offended, called us petty and mercantile.
I don't know how to solve this problem. Auntie can't come home now. And the kids are just getting into a new school. And I won't say no to my father. At least crack it!
Life Wisdom: What does this story teach us? As rude as it may sound, sometimes relatives need to be put in their place. It's easy to sit on someone else's neck and hang up their legs. Sometimes people do not know how to be grateful for the help that others give them. It’s time for the aunt to remember where she is and why it happened.
The time is now that you need to hold on to each other, to help, not to clarify the relationship. And if Marina does not like something, she has the right to move out and live separately. What do you think?
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