In the Land of the Soviets, a gold ring with a red ruby was a saleswoman's dream to be "like a senior commodity expert."

The last few decades have turned our lives upside down. New professions have emerged. We are forced to understand modern technology, otherwise we simply will not be able to communicate with people dear to us. And much more. As it was before, you won’t even remember. Remember. Soviet.



That era is still in the memory of many of us. Attitude to family, bosses, friends. Everything was closer, and therefore more valuable. Things were not thrown away, but repaired. Friendship was preserved throughout life. And the relationship was stronger. What a fleeting connection through social media. All this has passed, but we must not forget to look back on the past. Otherwise, you can lose hope for the future.

Now people of old cause mixed feelings among young people. For good reason. These people have acquired habits from the past. They live by the rules that were acceptable once, but now sometimes cause real bewilderment. A typical misunderstanding between generations. To this should be added the difference in age, finances, worldview.

For example,furniture. Middle-aged people will look at the breakage of the chair from the practical side: either give it to the master if the breakage is not too significant, or throw it away. Young people will not bother and order the delivery of a new product. Yes, and will complain that the old chair can not be thrown out of the window, and have to drag through the entrance. That's long, boring.



And a man who has found a past era will first examine everything properly. Find the cause of the failure, assess. Then goes to the basement / backroom / balcony. And will bring from there a couple of necessary screws, nuts and a piece of good fabric stored there for 10-20 years. He'll carefully measure it, plan it. After a while, it will make the chair even better than it was. New upholstery, fortified legs. Why is that? Because there is knowledge and patience.

Another habit. The service is in the closet. Young people are wondering why they need it. Few people come to visit, and cooking for a large number of people is difficult. It's easier to invite guests to the cafe. But like that, the old set brings joy, brings memories, nostalgia. Good quality dishes, good. Either way, something that might come in handy.



Now on the balcony it is fashionable to arrange a place where you can relax. There's a mattress, some pillows. You can even bring a lamp or an ottoman. The tape recorder is not modern. Headphones in your ears, tablet in your hands, sit back. The modern abundance of goods on store shelves allows you to turn around.

The balcony used to be a warehouse. Bicycle, skis, old radio and speakers. Sunsets, buckets, drum recorder. All that stuff went there. But on the other hand, before people actually used a bicycle, skis, skates, a ball and so on. It was physical education and rest for the soul. Today, an adult after the institute is interested only in a phone or tablet. What skates? Am I an athlete?



There have never been so many full people before. Yes, physical activity was different. Work, the road to work, cleaning, cooking - all this took more energy, but made you stronger, stronger. And now, with the advent of automation, young people are increasingly frail or overweight on their sides. But it's not just that.

Food was consumed much less. Or rather, how. Eating did not become a cult. Eating cake or ice cream is not bad. I had to get ready to go to the store. At the same time, walk, spend extra energy. Ordinary food, although it could not boast of a wide selection, was of better quality and met the standards. Even soda, even chocolate.



In modern times, you can order pizza at home. They'll bring it to you. In the kitchen there is an oven with bells and whistles, an electric vegetable cutter, a bunch of seasonings bought in the store for nothing. Anyway, whatever you need. Make everyone lazy. In the last couple of years, young people do not even want to go shopping. All the same delivery will bring all the necessary products. Why walk? There's a TV show or social media at home.

So it's also affected the relationship between people. How can a friendship be strong if you communicate with a person mostly by phone? Nothing that brings people together will happen. And relationships? You open your laptop and it’s all in your hand! You can compliment one girl, copy and immediately send the same words to another! Don't forget to change your name.



And before, couples went through all the hardships of life together, hand in hand. And getting closer. And their union was stronger. Raising your children was based on your own experience, not advice from the Internet. Who will grow up with this attitude? Honest and open man or pampered, cocky offspring, who has no conscience or culture?

No matter what you say, they used to be able to live and learn from their mistakes. Falling down, getting up and not looking for help. Evolve. Yes, it was not easy, in some places even very. Strictness towards oneself and others, excessive unpretentiousness in everyday life and meekness towards superiors. But there was good enough, too. Young people have a lot to learn and older people have a lot to remember. The main thing is to respect each other.