Why working wives envy women who can afford to stay at home

Anya tirelessly opened the front door. The apartment responded with silence. The woman had no desire to turn on the light in the hallway. She quickly dropped the shoes, which had rubbed some of her legs in a day, and threw them somewhere deep in the corridor. Today was another difficult day in the life of a working woman.

From the life of a working woman, the morning began well. Anya got up a few minutes before the alarm. She stretched sweetly and realized it was Friday. This thought helped her finally wake up and go make her favorite coffee. Anya could easily afford a cool coffee maker, but for some reason, making coffee in the morning brought her special pleasure. That's how she started every day.



While the coffee was brewing, the woman looked around the kitchen of her apartment. It was a rented apartment, but it looked insanely cozy and beautiful. It was expensive, but Anna was happy every day. Three years ago, she moved out of her husband, with whom she divorced. Then her new life began.



She remembered perfectly well that it was terribly hard at first. She had to get a little into debt, but after a couple of months, the girl found a great job and completely immersed herself in it. Now the position has begun to bring her a good income. Anya watched with one eye over the coffee, which tried to boil, and looked around her kitchen. She sparkled clean and orderly. Everything here was exactly as Ana wanted.



Suddenly, the girl remembered the former apartment, where her mother-in-law always came and rearranged everything in her own way. How awful! It's good that all this is a long time ago. Anya suffered greatly from the fact that she could not even comfortably bring home in her past. Surprisingly, in this rented apartment, she felt much more at home than in the apartment she shared with her husband.

Once she dreamed of her home and thought that nothing could be better. But he had to pay too much for it. Then Anya did not work and completely depended on her husband, which he enjoyed. He could yell at her and even hit her. The husband thought that his wife was not going anywhere and he could do anything.



What changed in the life of a working woman Ani The former life was like hell. Many people will think that she was sweet because she didn’t have to work and pay for housing, but everything just looked good. The perfect picture is far from the ideal life. Anna realized that money is a resource that can be earned. But the nerve cells do not recover. The former life brought Anya to such states that nothing pleased him.



Yes, a woman sometimes gets very tired. But she loves her job and likes to be around friendly employees. There is no longer a fearsome man running her life. The man who forbade her to communicate even with her friends. For moments it seemed that Anya was a slave to her husband, belonging only to him. Everything started so well with him...

Beautiful love quickly turned into tyranny. The husband forbade to go out for a long time or even to dress as Ana wanted. She liked the slightly outspoken bright style that she happily returned to after the divorce. Who knew a gentle boyfriend would be such an aggressive domestic despot.



Life Wisdom: What does this story teach us? Now she knows how good it is to be free and independent. All plans. For a while, the girl assured herself that she would never enter into a serious relationship again. However, now she has calmed down a bit and realised she doesn't mind being someone's wife or just being loved again. You just need to choose a partner more carefully and still have something behind you.

Do not look for yourself “making money”. You need to be close to someone who loves and supports, but does not block the air. It is possible to be free while in a long relationship. It's all about the person and his character. And yet Anya was not envious of unemployed women who are in abusive relationships for the sake of housing and financial support. It's scary and totally unwise.

This is the story of a working woman who has no regrets.



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