The daughter demands that we buy her an apartment in the capital, offers to sell the dacha, I almost agreed, and the husband opposes this situation.

Valeria Nikolaevna has the only daughter Lilya. The girl is no longer small, in the 3rd year she is studying at the university. Valeria Nikolaevna is convinced that never in her life before entering the university did her daughter behave so boorishly. She's changed.

The only child in the family is often spoiled. The long-awaited child, in which parents invest all their soul, money and give gifts, will necessarily take such behavior on the part of parents for granted. Is it possible to fight this, how to do so that the child does not become obsessed with love and support?

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I did not go to university, and my husband did not finish his studies for health reasons. But even without higher education, our lives were not bad. Looking back, I realize that studying in college would not hurt any of us. Higher education has many advantages. Lena and I have lived all our lives in the village, there is something to do here without studying. But when we had our daughter, we agreed that we would try to give her all the things we didn't have, the future.



Lilya grew up a kind girl, always tried to help us in everything and never hurt. It's time to go to university. At this point, my husband and I have saved up some money to pay for the education of our beloved daughter. Lilya studied well in school, but the passing ball on the budget did not score.



We knew her daughter wanted to go to a prestigious university, so we supported her. A year later, another, and Lilya began to change before her eyes. All this time she lived in a dormitory in the capital, and sometimes came home on weekends. Now she's in her 3rd year, she's got everything ahead of her. But Lilya became friends with rich city girls, whom her parents buy cars and expensive trinkets.



This time, my daughter came with a serious conversation. She asked us to buy her an apartment in the capital because she was ashamed to live in a hostel. I was surprised to open my mouth. We don’t have any savings left, we gave everything to study. The daughter knew that we would say so, and remembered that we have a dacha that my husband inherited from his mother. Lilya asked to sell the property and give her an expensive gift.



My husband is strict and he didn’t want to listen. I'm just thinking about where my sweet baby went and since when does Lilya demand to be kept? She is threatening to leave the university. I don't recognize my daughter. I think it's the influence of her friends.”



Lily's parents have always protected her and tried to give her the best. But the girl wanted to study at the university herself. According to the mother, the daughter really wanted to study in this university. And her parents gave her such an opportunity, although they could well refuse or insist on independent admission to the budget. Since mom and dad wanted an educated person in their family, they went to meet their daughter. They already invested a lot of money in her training. And if Lilya wanted to always study here, who would she do worse if she refused to continue her studies? It's her choice. Just following your daughter is not a good idea. Perhaps she will understand her mistake if she stops supporting her. After all, she is already an adult and can give an account of her actions, and not sit on the neck of her parents.