Everyone told the young mother that it was wrong to give her son such a name, but she fought back everyone who had something to say.

“How could you call a child such a terrible name? Did you think about the future of your son? – shouts at the main character of today’s story her mother. It’s not just that she doesn’t like the name Angelina chose for her baby. Literally, everyone with condemnation looks at the new mother and twists his finger at his temple. Whether everything is so bad in fact and whether strangers have their point of view on this matter, we discuss in today's article.



I recently gave birth to my first child. When the head of the department saw what I was going to name my son, she looked at me like a fool. Said I was out of my mind and didn't think at all about what was going to happen to my baby.

But I did not remain silent and with an angry grin replied: “Just do not teach me life.” I don't have to ask your permission. This is my child and I have to choose his name. And then came out of the office, slamming the door. What a tactlessness!



I wasn't going to lecture. I can easily get a birth certificate without any help. True, in the registry office, history repeated itself. The employee looked at me and asked, “Are you sure you want to pick that name?” I couldn't stand it, and I went after her. She was scared that I would call her boss if she didn't keep doing her job.

After discharge, several issues had to be resolved. First, to settle in the apartment with my mother, because we had nowhere else to live. Second, go to a lawyer and find out how I can get alimony.

The most annoying thing is that my mother doesn’t understand my choice of name for my son either: How could you call a child such a terrible name? Have you thought about your son's future? Imagine what awaits him in kindergarten, school. What happens when he joins the army? He'll be laughed at! How many complexes generate the wrong name! Think about it, daughter.

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I didn’t want to fight with my mom, but I had no choice. I told her everything I thought about the situation, but my mother said, ‘You’re just selfish! Think about how your son will get a job, start a family. I wonder what kind of patronymic will his children have? How would it sound? Angelina, you're ruining a child's life!

I can’t imagine living under the same roof. This might not have been the case if the father of my child had not left us shortly before we were born. To resolve the issue of alimony, I went to a lawyer. But there was another surprise waiting for me.

At a meeting with a lawyer, the lawyer asked me a lot of questions, the answers to which did not please him at all. For example, the fact that Andrew and I did not live together and did not legalize the relationship. I don't even know his place of residence because he's a visitor. He used to live with his friends and we met at my house.

It is possible to establish paternity in court, but the lawyer said that he needed to consult with colleagues. I was very angry, I was advised to be one of the smartest people in this city. Are you saying you need someone else’s advice? ?



The lawyer replied, “We have a serious problem.” To solve it simply and quickly, unfortunately, is impossible. To establish paternity, you need to know the name of the father of your child, the date of birth. Have you ever seen his passport? It may not have been his name to you.”

I left the lawyer all the documents I had and went home. In the hallway I heard my mother babysitting my son: “My bunny is dear, Bodechka!” When I heard this, I immediately flew into the room and shouted: “What kind of Bodechka is he?” He's Goddar! The child God gave me! I'm so sick of this!



But my mother seemed not to hear me and continued to talk to the baby: “My granddaughter is my own, you are still very young, and your mother is all out.” And me, and the doctors, and the neighbors, and even the lawyer got! I can't imagine what will happen when you go to kindergarten. And you will be Bogdan, and Bodeus, and God. Your mother will probably turn gray at all.”

I was very offended by these words, and I thought about it. I'm thinking of changing my son's name before it's too late. But is that right?

Life Wisdom: What does this story teach us? This story can be analyzed from different angles. However, it seems to us that above all it teaches us to think about the consequences of our decisions. Agree, the name Bogodar, although it sounds interesting, but in the realities of our time can really affect the fate of the child. The rare Slavic name is not known to everyone. At school, the boy will probably be teased and called by various nicknames.



On the other hand, we are convinced that outsiders have no right to interfere in the affairs of others and give advice. It is up to the parents to name the child. By the way, if you are thinking about a Slavic name, you will need our selection of interesting options.

Whose side are you on in this story?