Tips for polite communication with the child

Every parent has their own. education children. As statistics show, most follow the rules that were passed down from previous generations.

Innovation in this field is terribly slow to enter our lives, and then only thanks to outstanding psychologists and educators. But if your child does not listen to you, regularly argues, rudely or simply behaves in a rude manner, then it is time to think about what you did wrong and how to fix the situation.





No matter what they say, children are the flowers of life. But the flower will not be able to rise, grow and bloom without comfortable conditions. And it's not about material goods.

The most important thing that we can give to children is laid directly into consciousness. Here are some tips that will help you right. parentAnd then the child will definitely give you a glass of water in old age!





How to properly raise a child

1. Don't yell at the baby.
   Old and worn advice, but incredibly useful. When you yell at your child, all the aggression he absorbs like a sponge and eventually just throw it out. Calm down, take a deep breath, and think about what you're so bad about. Now mentally prepare for an unpleasant situation, and when the time comes, express dissatisfaction with the usual tone. It makes parenting much easier.
   
   Can't contain yourself? Yeah, it's complicated, no doubt! Here is an invaluable recommendation that has helped many adults cope with themselves. First, figure out what exactly causes you irritation and screaming. Be prepared for this situation always. Loud music? Bad grades? You've been through this before, and you should be prepared for this kind of trouble. You're the adult of the two of you!
   
   Count to 10. If you do this simple manipulation, it will be a shame to break into a scream!
   
   
   
   
   
2. Don't ask too much.
   Your child is sure to be the best for you, even if he does not win medals in swimming or learn best. Do not assume that your offspring should be like you at the same age, or transfer to him the realization of all his unrealized ambitions. Just look for what he does best and develop it!
   
   
   
   
   
3. Make a good impression.
   Children are the mirror of their parents, and they will appreciate everything you do and even repeat. Surprise your child with unexpected skills, show your knowledge, strength, character. Thus, you can not only gain authority, but also invest in the child all the best that is in you.
   
   
   
   
   
4. Talk, help, convince.
   There must be a complete understanding between you. Discuss with your child everyday life, be not only a teacher, but also a friend. Help you feel that you can expect help and advice from you at any time, make the family home a fortress for him, where he will be listened to and helped. Convince your offspring that he is the blacksmith of his life, his failures and successes. In an atmosphere of love and understanding, great people grow up.
   
   
   
   
   
5. Spend more time together.
   Even if your schedule is impossible to carve out a lot of time for the child, use it as efficiently as possible. Reading books, going to the theater, relaxing in nature - incredibly positively affect your relationship and teach your child to useful activities. If the child does not have enough attention, he will start looking for it from others. There is no guarantee that everything will be fine in the end.
   
   
   
   
   
6. Don't shy away from questions.
   Even if your child asks a question on a sensitive topic, don’t try to avoid the answer. Some information children are not yet ready to accept, but any uncertainty in the answer will distort the perception of the child. Answer directly, but concisely if the topic is unpleasant to you.
   
   
   
7. Don't keep yourself out of trouble.
   Your task as a parent is to prepare a fragile and carefree child’s consciousness for adulthood. Carefully guarding against all problems, this will not work. The death of relatives, problems in the family, even a banal refusal to buy “that beautiful toy” temper your child, help the personality to form.
   
   
   
   
   
8. Admit your mistakes.
   When you realize that you were wrong in the end, for example, in a discussion with your son or daughter, do not be afraid to admit it to your child. Your authority will not fall, on the contrary, you will raise it, restoring justice or competently admitting defeat.
   
   
   

This is how you need to raise a child to grow a real person! You like the advice? Leave your opinion in the comments. And don’t forget to share it with your friends, they will also be useful.