Our whole life is like some kind of competition: in beauty, achievement, money, influence. But it’s especially scary when you see grief-parents trying to mold from their children what didn’t come out of them. And they do.
by any means. We were shocked to see what was going on in preparation for children’s beauty contests.
Today's edition.
"Site" He will tell you and show you what parents do with their little ones to participate and win a children’s beauty contest. It is not worth it to take away the child’s childhood and cripple his psyche.
Even 10-15 years ago, children’s beauty contests showed us smart babies who briskly demonstrated their skills and talents. The maximum invasion of their appearance is curled hair. Now parents do everything to make girls look older and more feminine. Whether this is the influence of Instagram and the beauty industry, or so parents are blown away by the anticipation of victory.
They dress their daughters in revealing outfits, use tons of cosmetics, fake hair, tan or even resort to solarium services. Whiten the already weak milk teeth, and in place of the fallen put special plates. Restrict children in food and put on strict diets.
The worst part is that children are forced to pose as adult women. No stupid, carefree facial expressions. Just femininity and even sexuality. Children are taught to smile with an unnatural and dead smile. Sometimes it is not even clear who is in front of you - a girl or a dwarf. And
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There was a recent scandal in the United States. One grief mother pricked her 7-year-old daughter Botox. A woman works as a cosmetologist and believes that there is nothing terrible in this. Not all women over 40 are recommended this. One question: why? Children already have perfect skin, and expressing emotions and making faces at their age is normal.
It's all very scary. Activists around the world are calling for children’s beauty pageants to be banned. For example, France has already done this. Competitiveness and competition are good. But this is acceptable in sports, singing, dancing, that is, where the child himself makes efforts and understands that if he lost, you need to try further, hone talents. And in a beauty contest, the girl can't understand why she was recognized worse than the other.
Children are very disappointed. When parents tell their daughter every day that she is the most beautiful and she loses in a contest,
self-esteem Falling catastrophically.
Almost all psychologists oppose such children's competitions. A young child does things that are not suitable for his age and dangerous for the psyche. Later, cravings for drugs, anorexia, promiscuous intimate relationships may appear.
Even if winning a beauty contest brings a good cash prize, think about the fact that no money can buy a childhood. There are many beauty contests for young girls and even married women. Here you can take part in them, and it is not worth breaking the child's psyche.
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