If a parent has changed: 7 things that will happen to a child He'd never know better. Bashny.Net

Divorce and single-parent families are a reality that is foolish to deny. The reasons can be completely different, and in some cases, the dissolution of marriage can be considered even from the positive side. But there is one that destroys not only the family, but also the future of the child. This is cheating on one of the spouses. The cheater hurts not only his partner, but also inflicts a huge amount of damage. traumatization.





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Editorial "Site" He will tell you about 7 scenarios that a child can expect in the future if he learns that one of his parents cheated.

Children after parental divorce

1. It'll change too.
   According to psychologists, in the future, 55% of children in whose family such a situation occurred change. This is because parents set an example for their children. Then you will be guided and guided to the right path. parenting in most cases.
   
   
   
   

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Traumatized paranoid
Nothing is worse for a child than betrayal. The picture of a quarrel over betrayal can be very much imprinted in his memory and subconscious. The child grows insecure and suspects everyone around him of infidelity. Any relationship will be accompanied by fear. There is a good chance that as an adult he will be overly jealous.



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Loss of confidence
In the future, children will be afraid not only to start families, but also to lose trust in anyone. It will be difficult for them to make friends, they will always be silent in the company.



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Self-doubt
A person who has experienced betrayal grows self-doubt. Children will avoid long-term relationships and refuse to bond with others for fear of being abandoned. Or they will throw themselves away so that they do not do so.



Loss of faith in a happy family life
Children can become very irritable and capricious. Even if the family does not break up because of infidelity, they still will not trust their parents. Most likely, the concept of love for them will fade away. Even in the future, they may not have an emotional connection, but only a physical one.



Parental choice
Some parents begin to divide the child, or the offended side begins to set him against the cheater. You can't do that. In any case, the child needs both parents. Such wars and divisions will only breed in him uncertainty, uncertainty, and hatred of both.



Lifelong trauma
Years will pass, and the memory of the betrayal of one of the parents remains. He will look for a trick in his future relationship, compare the behavior of the second half with a cheater. In general, the situation will always be heated.





Think twice before you cheat, especially if you have children. Even if this happens, do not make a child a witness to quarrels and mental trauma. Tell this to your friends on social media!

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