13 things that take away happiness

“In order for something new to come into life, you need to get rid of something old,” says one of the laws of the universe. Often the old prevents us from moving forward, poisons life, presses with its burden, but we are still afraid to let go of it.

The risker feels relieved and wonders why he has not said goodbye to the past before. Probably out of fear of the future. Also totally unjustified.

We suggest that you familiarize yourself with a list of things that you should give up without regret. This article is addressed to those who want to grow above themselves.





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1. Stop proving yourself right.
   Sometimes we try to assert ourselves too much. Do not jeopardize good relationships, do not hurt others, proving yourself right. If you can not agree with someone’s point of view, you can simply accept the fact of its existence.
2. Give up the habit of control.
   Just let go. It is impossible to influence all the situations and events that happen to you, much less manage them. Everything will be fine if it is meant to be.
   
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3. Free yourself from guilt.
   Guilt requires punishment. Instead of blaming and punishing yourself, take responsibility for what happened to you. Responsibility is not so cruel, it requires only one thing: to continue to act in accordance with the conclusions.
4. Don't kill yourself with negativity
   Self-analysis is good, self-criticism can also take place within reasonable limits, but self-flagellation is a path to nowhere. Negative creates a new negative and does not bring any improvement.
   
   
   
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5. Stop complaining.
   Stop complaining about life, about people, about everything that you think makes you unhappy. Complaining won't make people better! In addition, it is often not those around us who spoil our lives, but our reaction to them.
6. Let others be different.
   Everyone's whole. universe. Making him change by criticizing him is stupid. 456596.
   
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7. Be yourself.
   You can make an impression on someone once, but in the second meeting, this person will still understand you. Accept and love your self and don’t wear masks. That way you won't disappoint anyone.
8. Don't resist change.
   Life is movement. Those who stand still die slowly.
9. Don't brand people.
   By labeling, you don’t allow all sides of a person’s identity to be revealed. Don’t brand people you don’t know or things you don’t understand. That's what will limit you.
   
   
   
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10. Let go of the past
    The hardest thing is to let go of the past. But this must be done, otherwise the future will not come, it will have nowhere to come. To live in the present, but with thoughts in those days that cannot be returned, is to stop developing.
11. Let go of fear.
    You're holding yourself back with your own fears. They are an illusion that exists only in your head. Change your inner attitude to the positive and the world will give you new opportunities.
    
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12. Don't make excuses.
    You didn't go to the gym not because there was no mood, no money, there was a lot of other work, but because you didn't put sports first. The reasons for the lack of results are not important to anyone, the result is important.
13. Forget about the expectations of your parents, teachers, colleagues, soulmates
    By following them, you will live their lives, and you need to think about yours. You only have one if you don't believe in reincarnation.
    
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Live as your inner voice tells you, not as others tell you. He's your conscience and your best advisor, figuratively speaking. center.

Do you think it's realistic to do all these things? It is said that those who succeed in doing so become really happy.

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