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Grandma always said that her husband should be in the first place, not for nothing she and Grandpa celebrated a golden wedding.
How could it be? husbandEspecially in a family where a child is growing up? It so happened that all stereotypes are aimed at the fact that family resources were thrown at the future of children, while parents move to another, special status. This is when their partnership and love end. Just because priority has shifted. And then the question arises: should it be removed?
The reason for this reflection was the statement of an American journalist that for her, a happy marriage is when a husband comes first and a child comes second. This statement caused a storm of negativity, the attack went mothers, who shifted their priority. But let’s try to figure it out, because this statement did not appear for nothing. Editorial "Site" He invites you to read the arguments.
One morning I was watching Good Morning America and two young ladies said that children always come first. In second place, it turns out, friends and only then, somewhere in the tail of life, husbands weave. It was great fun for them, and they agreed that their husbands would not be told about it, of course, because they did not even know what place was determined for them.
To be honest, I wasn’t even funny. I have questionWhy would they want marriage and relationships? This is what we strive for, what we work for all our lives. Personally, I want it to last to the deepest old age, and it doesn’t seem funny to me, really! I thought about the fact that the husbands of these women have the same priorities. Children, then friends/interests and then their wives. Except they don't tell them.
It seems to me sad that the husband, who was not so long ago your chosen one, a loved one, a person you were happy to marry, suddenly moved to the background. And I weighed mine. personal experienceWhat does it look like here? We have been together for almost twenty years, we have a career, a home, children and a dog to walk with. We believe our marriage is the foundation that has helped us achieve everything we have.
I think that the best example for our children is a strong and unshakable family. Only in such an environment can you feel safe, understand that you are loved and that your parents play a team game. Not only do they earn money, but they respect each other, love and keep relationships, even though they are so impressive. timeline.
Husband first. Now let's talk about priorities again. Children at best stay in the family until the age of twenty, then go to live their lives. You and your husband will be alone. And your relationshipTwenty years have been frozen on autopilot. And since he's the last one of your priorities, he'll be a complete fool if he stays with you. What should he do here if he is not appreciated?
During this time, you have become so distant from each other that after leaving the children, it is completely unclear why you ever married. All that connects you is adultThe ones you put in charge of everything. By the way, don't any of you think they've grown up selfish people who believe they're the center of the universe?
It is obvious to me that children need to be given a completely different example. Does anyone want them, like you, to be put last, at the bottom of their priorities? Exactly. Therefore, it is important to put marriage and your husband first. Because the kids are going to free-floatingIt's just the two of you. The thoughts in your head will only be on your conscience.
How do you do that? Just let your man know that he is always wanted by you. Aren't you happy when he comes home from work and kisses your son or daughter? Give him something tasty, at least do it. giftGive him a hug and try not to get mad at his distraction. Tell him in front of the kids, "I love you." This is the management of your life, the management of your family. Trust me, your husband will respond in kind.
From the editorial board, we believe that journalist The law and its arguments are quite logical. She also says that her father loves her very much, but she feels that more than anything he adores her mother. I firmly believe that this is how it should be. How could she have created her own strong family?
Write down your thoughts on whether it is fair to husband Or is it supposed to be a baby? Read our article about why the spouse is in a hurry to participate in the life of the family and what to do about it. Thank you for staying with us!
The reason for this reflection was the statement of an American journalist that for her, a happy marriage is when a husband comes first and a child comes second. This statement caused a storm of negativity, the attack went mothers, who shifted their priority. But let’s try to figure it out, because this statement did not appear for nothing. Editorial "Site" He invites you to read the arguments.
One morning I was watching Good Morning America and two young ladies said that children always come first. In second place, it turns out, friends and only then, somewhere in the tail of life, husbands weave. It was great fun for them, and they agreed that their husbands would not be told about it, of course, because they did not even know what place was determined for them.
To be honest, I wasn’t even funny. I have questionWhy would they want marriage and relationships? This is what we strive for, what we work for all our lives. Personally, I want it to last to the deepest old age, and it doesn’t seem funny to me, really! I thought about the fact that the husbands of these women have the same priorities. Children, then friends/interests and then their wives. Except they don't tell them.
It seems to me sad that the husband, who was not so long ago your chosen one, a loved one, a person you were happy to marry, suddenly moved to the background. And I weighed mine. personal experienceWhat does it look like here? We have been together for almost twenty years, we have a career, a home, children and a dog to walk with. We believe our marriage is the foundation that has helped us achieve everything we have.
I think that the best example for our children is a strong and unshakable family. Only in such an environment can you feel safe, understand that you are loved and that your parents play a team game. Not only do they earn money, but they respect each other, love and keep relationships, even though they are so impressive. timeline.
Husband first. Now let's talk about priorities again. Children at best stay in the family until the age of twenty, then go to live their lives. You and your husband will be alone. And your relationshipTwenty years have been frozen on autopilot. And since he's the last one of your priorities, he'll be a complete fool if he stays with you. What should he do here if he is not appreciated?
During this time, you have become so distant from each other that after leaving the children, it is completely unclear why you ever married. All that connects you is adultThe ones you put in charge of everything. By the way, don't any of you think they've grown up selfish people who believe they're the center of the universe?
It is obvious to me that children need to be given a completely different example. Does anyone want them, like you, to be put last, at the bottom of their priorities? Exactly. Therefore, it is important to put marriage and your husband first. Because the kids are going to free-floatingIt's just the two of you. The thoughts in your head will only be on your conscience.
How do you do that? Just let your man know that he is always wanted by you. Aren't you happy when he comes home from work and kisses your son or daughter? Give him something tasty, at least do it. giftGive him a hug and try not to get mad at his distraction. Tell him in front of the kids, "I love you." This is the management of your life, the management of your family. Trust me, your husband will respond in kind.
From the editorial board, we believe that journalist The law and its arguments are quite logical. She also says that her father loves her very much, but she feels that more than anything he adores her mother. I firmly believe that this is how it should be. How could she have created her own strong family?
Write down your thoughts on whether it is fair to husband Or is it supposed to be a baby? Read our article about why the spouse is in a hurry to participate in the life of the family and what to do about it. Thank you for staying with us!
I no longer remove the skin from the hats of oil, the mushroom picker said that there is no point in bothering.
The cutting boards stinked, even the lockers smelled, I don't know how to be.