Why Some Women Feel Lonelier in Marriage

The statistics of the breakdown of marriages are not good. The average age at which they first get married has risen in recent decades. People began to start a family at a more conscious age. The number of divorce cases has also increased.

Everyone dreams of eternal love and a strong marriage, but entering into it, faces difficulties that seem insurmountable to him. All illusions and hopes are destroyed, the dream ends in divorce. Consider the main causes of family breakdown.



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1. Women have become very emancipated. Increasingly, they are reluctant to have children, motivated by concern about career and appearance. And among men there are those who do not hurry with the heirs. A childless marriage breaks up sooner or later.
   
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2. The most serious causes of divorce: alcoholism, drug addiction, gambling addiction of one of the spouses. As well as physical violence in the family against a partner or children. When hope for a cure disappears, and violence humiliates or threatens health problems, the family, of course, falls apart.
   
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3. Lack of common interests. People do not converge by characters, but by interests. They have different goals, different views, they live in different worlds. For example, young people get married during their student years. They are united by study, student entertainment, mutual friends. But after college, they start looking in different directions. This ends either in quarrels or alienation.
   
   
   
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4. Treason. Both a woman and a man can change. A person who cheats is either insecure and compensates for it by cheating, or dissatisfied with their partner or partner and looking for a replacement.
   
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5. Man by nature is aimed at achievement and activity in the outside world, and woman - to create mood and atmosphere. If a man does not know how to be attentive to the inner world of a woman, and not only her shell, and a woman does not understand that all achievements are made for her, the family breaks up. In this case, the woman is married, but still feels lonely. And the man is completely perplexed and irritated.
   
   
   
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What do we do? No matter how corny it sounds, love. The fact is that all these problems are solvable. Only love can solve them.

Just like in sports, the desire to be healthy and look good motivates you to regularly and constantly exercise in the gym and eat a balanced diet. And love inspires to work on relationships and family development.





Love endures for a long time, is merciful, love does not envy, love does not exalt, is not proud, is not outrageous, does not seek its own, is not irritated, does not think evil, does not rejoice in untruth, but rejoices in the truth. He covers everything, believes everything, hopes everything, endures everything, the Bible says.

First, you need to determine whether love lives in the heart in relation to the second half. If so, then the existing problems should be addressed in practice. And if not, do not torment yourself or the companion.



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Causes of family breakdown They can be different and complex, but that doesn’t mean most of them can’t be avoided. Agree when familyEven from the outside, it is noticeable how emotionally exhausted or alienated the spouses are. Their hearts are not warm to each other.

We have already written about the rules of a strong family, and also gave advice to married women to save marriage. Follow the links. Perhaps the advice of psychologists and other people’s experience will be useful for you.