Rules for the upbringing of the daughter

Every mother wants to educate. princess. But is it worth it? Raising a daughter is much more difficult than raising a son. And the point is not that boys are too simple and not at all capricious, and girls are demanding and harmful. Not at all.

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The thing is that the inner world of the girl is arranged harderthan a boy's world. This is easily explained in terms of age psychology. Girls grow up much earlier, and psychologically too! Rapid self-development of the girl begins much earlier than the boy. That’s why it’s so easy to upset her mental balance and make some gross mistakes in psychological education.





Let's try to take a few apart today. mistake raising a girl.





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The most common mistakes

1. To understand where the main blunder in the education of a girl, it is necessary to first consider parenting overall. Unfortunately, in our time there is a tendency to bring up a son too softly and raise a daughter too hard. Boys are often allowed much more than girls. After all, a girl is a little lady who should be an adult and responsible. Boys for a very long time are perceived as completely independent and not capable of this independence. That's not what they're asking for. Girls are being asked too much. Try it. put yourself in the daughter's placeWhen you give another instruction or set a task for her. Try to remember what you felt as a child.
   
   
   
   
   
   
2. For girls, life is difficult almost from birth, because they almost immediately try to achieve compliance with some incomprehensible women's standard. Remember your childhood. How often did you hear the phrase “you’re a girl” as a child? Especially when I wanted to have fun, run, scream and just be a normal kid. “Lena, did you fall down again and get your new skirt dirty?” How can you, you're a girl! Try not to put pressure on your daughter social stereotypes and try to get rid of them yourself.
   
   
   
   
   
   
3. How to properly raise a girl? Praise, praise and praise again. Girls. very oftenTheir achievements are taken for granted, even though they try as hard as the boys. In addition, many things are given to the girl much harder. Daughters are much more emotional than sons. Because of this, they take both sincere praise and its absence to heart. If you see that the child really tried to do something, try to notice it and praise it. Do not be afraid that the praise will come and the child will no longer appreciate it. Trust me, that's not gonna happen!
   
   
   
   
   
   
4. Talk to your child. As soon as you see that even the slightest misunderstanding has arisen, be sure to sit next to your girl and talk to her about it. As long as my daughter is young, she is happy. Trust you with your secrets and experienceswhich you can solve together. However, if she gets used to not relying on you, she will not trust you as a teenager. This age is particularly critical. Let your daughter see in you not just a mother, but also a close friend who can not only listen, but also help!
   
   
   
   
   
   
5. It is very important when a girl is well educated. But, believe me, much more important than the happiness of your child and his trust in you. Your daughter may not meet all social standards and stereotypes, but how she loves you will make up for it.
   
   
   
   

The mother-daughter relationship is not just one of the spheres of our lives, it is what shapes us as individuals. That is why you should pay special attention to your relationship with your own mother. Perhaps it will help you to understand your girl better and raise her happy person.