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How to wean a child to whine
The child can whine for any reason: he wants to eat or drink, tired or unwell. The child may become upset when he is uncomfortable or just wants the attention of adults. And the task of parents is not only to understand the aspirations of the child, but also to teach him to cope with his own emotions.
And today's edition. "Site" will tell What to do with a capricious childWho likes to whine and speak in a weeping voice. But children begin to use these annoying tricks as soon as they master legible speech.
If the child behaves badly, then adults, as a rule, ask him to behave calmer, stop being capricious. But it is difficult for a preschooler to control his emotions and contain the discontent that overwhelms him. And although many children already in junior grades learn to behave more restrained, some experience difficulties in this matter.
So that the child quickly learns to keep his emotions under control (at least at first to make the tone less tearful), parents can try the simplest trick. However, in this case you will have to show considerable restraint and consistency.
The essence of the method: to let the child understand that his whining not only does not help to achieve the desired, but also prevents it. And every time the child begins to whine, the parent needs to patiently and even with a smile to address the child: “You are now speaking in a whiny voice that I can’t make out.” Please repeat in the voice of the big girl/boy.
And if the child continues, be patient: “I know you’re saying something, but I can’t make out a single word.” Repeat this with the voice of the big girl/boy.
If the child continues to whine, you can shrug your shoulders, turn away and continue to ignore him until he says what he needs without a crying voice.
If he begins to cry, explain that you want to hear him, but your ears can only hear a calm voice. If the tone of the child becomes less tearful, be sure to praise him and listen to the request.
Of course, the child will not be able to form a useful habit at once, and therefore parents should act in this way until the baby finally gets rid of tearfulness. And the more persistently mom and dad act in this matter, the sooner the result will be.
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Do not forget to praise the baby for small successes, and also talk to him in an emphasised calm tone. In that case, even capricious quickly learn the rules of decency and learn to cope with their own emotions to the joy of mom and dad and surprisingly everyone.
And today's edition. "Site" will tell What to do with a capricious childWho likes to whine and speak in a weeping voice. But children begin to use these annoying tricks as soon as they master legible speech.
If the child behaves badly, then adults, as a rule, ask him to behave calmer, stop being capricious. But it is difficult for a preschooler to control his emotions and contain the discontent that overwhelms him. And although many children already in junior grades learn to behave more restrained, some experience difficulties in this matter.
So that the child quickly learns to keep his emotions under control (at least at first to make the tone less tearful), parents can try the simplest trick. However, in this case you will have to show considerable restraint and consistency.
The essence of the method: to let the child understand that his whining not only does not help to achieve the desired, but also prevents it. And every time the child begins to whine, the parent needs to patiently and even with a smile to address the child: “You are now speaking in a whiny voice that I can’t make out.” Please repeat in the voice of the big girl/boy.
And if the child continues, be patient: “I know you’re saying something, but I can’t make out a single word.” Repeat this with the voice of the big girl/boy.
If the child continues to whine, you can shrug your shoulders, turn away and continue to ignore him until he says what he needs without a crying voice.
If he begins to cry, explain that you want to hear him, but your ears can only hear a calm voice. If the tone of the child becomes less tearful, be sure to praise him and listen to the request.
Of course, the child will not be able to form a useful habit at once, and therefore parents should act in this way until the baby finally gets rid of tearfulness. And the more persistently mom and dad act in this matter, the sooner the result will be.
81615.
Do not forget to praise the baby for small successes, and also talk to him in an emphasised calm tone. In that case, even capricious quickly learn the rules of decency and learn to cope with their own emotions to the joy of mom and dad and surprisingly everyone.
