In the store I saw two children sitting on the floor in the aisle and chewing cookies, which they opened, and the mother does not blow.

Parental behaviour and child behaviour They don't exist separately. In one way or another, children project how mom and dad behave. This is especially evident during the child’s adulthood. Sometimes you wonder how a little carapace can be so obedient and intelligent. And then you look at his intelligent parents, and everything becomes clear.



Unfortunately, the same thing works in the opposite direction. Very often, unbred breakaways grow up in families where no one deals with them. Today we would like to talk about this topic, telling a stunning story from the life of our subscriber. Join the discussion!

A whole story happened to me the other day. I go to the store and see an interesting picture. Near the shelves of sweets stands a woman, and her two 3-year-old children sit on the floor and chew cookies, which they have just opened. I was speechless for a second.



The first thought is to come up and quickly lift the babies off the floor, cold! But common sense suggested that this would be the beginning of the end. These are not my children and I should not interfere in their lives. But what to do if the mother's heart cracks at the seams? I immediately remembered my daughter. She recently turned 5 years old.

If she sat down on the floor of the store like this and started eating some sweets, I would go crazy! First, as I said, the floor is cold and dirty. Secondly, it's just ugly! How can you behave like that? Of course, the behavior of these children is just a reflection of their upbringing. But this is the first time I've seen it!



I couldn’t stand it and approached this woman. “I apologize, I don’t want to interfere, but your kids are sitting on the cold floor. “Maybe you didn’t notice,” I said timidly, realizing that the reaction could be unpredictable. That's what happened.

The problem is, "Don't get involved, lady." They can sit wherever they want. And that’s none of your business! the woman replied. At this point, one of the sons raised a harrowing cry, to which the half-store ran.



I thought something happened while we were talking. Although it's hard to call it a conversation. But no, the boy just demanded to buy him another chocolate bar. By the way, in their food basket already lay 3 tiles of milk.

Grief-mother has not found a better solution, how to hit the son on the hand to keep him quiet. The baby started crying. I don’t even want to describe how horrible it looked. I think you're pretty good at this. At that moment, a lump formed in my throat. I'm very empathic and it's hard to feel that way when I see it.



What do we do? The brain knew that it was powerless in this situation. It became clear why these children behaved this way. The child is a projection of the parents. Seeing these mothers, you realize how often children become hostages of their mothers and fathers. When will something change in our society?

Editorial Insolence and lack of manners They don't appear in children out of nowhere. If you notice an inappropriate behavior of a child in the store, look closely at his parents. Perhaps you will find the answer to all your questions. I want to believe that over time our society will begin to change for the better even faster. In the meantime, we breathe out and draw conclusions.



Have you ever been in such situations? What would you do in the place of the main character of the story? Share your opinion in the comments!