What happens to a man whose parents leave this world?

Each of us sooner or later will know what it is. parenthood. It is simply impossible to prepare for the departure of the closest people. No matter how hard you try to take on the role of a staunch tin soldier, the child who lives inside you will take over.



Irreversible loss will divide life into before and after. Many things will be revealed to you in a new way, and some things will only become clear now. Life guidelines, principles and values will change. Today we would like to open a heartwarming topic and talk about something important.

When you lose your parents, you will feel the pain inside. But it hurts even more when you realize how many things you haven’t done. Didn't call, didn't come, didn't help when they needed you. On the surface of consciousness appear long forgotten stupid quarrels and resentments. I want to turn back time to fix everything and do more for my family.



This feeling will replace loneliness, which will take time to subside. And humility will follow. Accepting your new reality, you will begin to look at everything from a different angle. And what may have seemed insignificant before will begin to take on special importance.

It is said that the departure of parents from a person’s life changes his attitude towards the family. There is a real awareness of how valuable relationships with relatives and friends are. After all, only mom and dad were willing to do anything for you, they accepted you as you are. The family teaches us what genuine and unpaid love is.



Loss will make you more compassionate and sensitive. If you hear that any of your friends or acquaintances complain about their parents, you will be twice as sick. They don’t realize what a treasure they have in life. And you'd do anything to spend one more day with Mom or Dad.

It often happens that all gnawing thoughts from within lead to banal envy. You will be watching those who have the opportunity to visit their parents right now, imagining themselves in their place. And those who absolutely do not value communication with relatives can cause hatred and disgust in you.

As before, the holidays will never lose their value and specialness forever. You can no longer share your joy with your parents. Many things will get the status of “It will never be like before”, and you will have to just accept it.



Your hand will stretch to call your beloved mom and dad and share some news with them. But there's only silence at the end of the line. In moments like this, you realize How much you loved and loved your parents.As if this feeling is completely exposed and becomes the most important thing in life.

It is through love that you will stay afloat. It is thanks to her that the pain will be dulled. But sad thoughts keep creeping into your head. “My future child will not know what grandmothers are warm and affectionate,” you suddenly think, realizing that your parents will not see their grandchildren and great-grandchildren. And such “not” can be infinitely many.



Sometimes people behave so illogically. While parents are alive, adult children do not always manage to give them proper attention, take care of them or just communicate with relatives. But when they are gone, an obsessive thought appears in my head: “How would my mother react to this?” What would my father say? Such questions even help someone and become a starting point in solving important problems.

I was 14 years old when I learned about the loss of a loved one. My own brother is gone. I know firsthand what pain and a sense of bitter injustice are, which are forever settled inside.



They say time heals. But I think that It just transforms the senses.. I’ve really rethought a lot of things and I still do it. And sometimes I feel that it was because of this event that I became the person I am now.

If you've experienced the pain of loss, you probably know What can life be without parents?. I would be grateful if you could share your story with us. Remember you're not alone!