What mothers often hear in their address and upset

The life of a large family can be difficult. Especially if everyone around you is inclined to look obliquely and criticize as soon as you You go to the store with your three kids.. How do mothers feel in large families and why we should show a little more tolerance towards them?

Imagine a situation: you come to sit quietly in a cafe, and suddenly there comes a crowd in the form of one large family with three children. Kids, of course, begin to run around the institution, creating a lot of noise and fuss. Your reaction? You will probably be annoyed or even angry. You came here to have a good time.



Or here's another example. Traveling in a train carriage with no doors between sleeping compartments. At one end of the car, almost next to your shelf, there is a large family. Noise and noise all night and the next, too, because the trip is quite long. However, you have a business trip, and there is nowhere to go. You have work in the morning and your head. sleepless It goes around.



It's not pleasant, is it? Immediately you want to be angry not only at these specific people who ruined your pastime, but at all. To all large families around the world. I want to say something in style:



“Why did you have so many children?” Was one or two not enough?

To be honest, I am curious about the reasons why parents make such decisions. First of all, it should be noted that this The personal choice of every adult. This is a right that all couples have. Only here. With rights comes responsibility.



I asked my wife why she and her husband decided to have three children. For me, one is too much, and there are three. She replied as follows:

I come from a large family and I am used to having a lot of people around. I feel uncomfortable when there is no one around, or when there is only one child. We had financial opportunities, so after the birth of the first baby, we almost immediately decided to have a second child.



And here's the story of my other girlfriend. They have four children. I can't even imagine how they manage to handle so much. However, every time I visit them, everything is fine: No noise, everything is fine, everyone is happy.



“To be honest, we did not plan to have so many children. Only here. My husband really wanted a girl.We've had a lot of kids! What can you do if a girl decides to visit us last?



It's great when Many children are a conscious decision.Not a rash whim. In this case, it is easier to cope with children. Just because it's more enjoyable. But it's still pretty hard overall. It is good when children are calm and obedient, but this is not always the case.

I don’t think I’ll ever want a lot of kids, but it’s easy. Put yourself in the place of a mother. Even with a conscious desire, it is quite difficult to cope with three children. And we all have moments of weakness, emotional failure, when and It's not easy to do it yourself.. But no one will cancel the children at this time, you have to count on the understanding of others.