What childhood events still do not give you peace

Psychologists say that many problems in adulthood give rise to negative childhood memories.

Do you want to know what childhood grievances have influenced you the most?

Editorial "Site" This is done with a simple psychological test.



Just choose one of the 4 suggested drawings!

And we will tell you what unpleasant childhood memories lurk far in the depths of your subconscious. And most importantly, how to deal with them.

Children's memories The importance of drawings

1. It is possible that as a child you did not receive enough love and recognition from loved ones. Which led to lower self-esteem. Or maybe even a sense of inferiority. Such people are too painful to any kind of criticism and have a habit of engaging in regular self-examination.
   
   
   
   
   
   To cope with such a problem, you should stop berating yourself for every mistake and start praising your achievements.
   
   And instead of constantly fearing failures and failures, you need to get used to thinking positively and not fixating on defeats.
   
   
   
   
   
   
2. Figure number two indicates a loss of faith in loved ones. Most likely, a significant person did not fulfill an important promise to you. Therefore, the belief that no one in this world can be trusted for a long time settled in the vulnerable heart of a child.
   
   And growing up, you began to close in more and more, getting used to relying only on your own strength from an early age.
   
   
   
   
   
   Although such people and more often than others achieve success in work, with their personal life, they rarely go smoothly. Once again to be disappointed in the one you trust the most, there is no desire.
   
   There is only one way to overcome such a childish resentment - to take risks. It is worth trying to trust at least one person to get the support and care that each of us needs, regardless of age.
   
   
   
   
   
   
3. Those who chose the third drawing often felt like a failure as children. Perhaps your parents systematically underestimated your childhood efforts. Or maybe you had to face the ridicule of classmates because of any personal characteristics?
   
   
   
   In any case, now you try to turn into a universal favorite, often neglecting personal interests and desires.
   
   You should realize that in the end, someone else’s approval will not make you truly happy. And instead of trying to please everyone, you should take care of your own needs.
   
   
   
   
   
   
4. The fourth picture shows the fear of loneliness. It can come from the sudden loss of a loved one at an early age. Or having to cut ties with someone significant because of a change in life circumstances. This can lead to excessive obsession in adulthood. In the worst case scenario, you may not want to build a close relationship with someone for fear of losing them.
   
   
   
   
   
   In the first case, you should give more freedom to your friends and loved ones. And in the second - just accept the fact that it is impossible to keep a person who does not want to stay close.
   
   
   
   
   
   

Personally, it all matched 100%. What do you think of your result?

In any case, we hope that you will be able to overcome all childhood grievances and begin to live fully and happily.