My mother-in-law was offended that I used her frozen cherries without asking.

The funny thing is that looking back, most people don’t even remember why they quarreled and stopped communicating. And remembering, they realize that they could easily do without it. Just give in. But many people don't know. How to Reconcile After a Strong Argument. And often lose contact with loved ones for a long time.

Once I communicated as a couple, and they told me a wild story from their lives.

He and his wife Mary were twenty years old. They decided to live together. They searched for an apartment for a long time, but could not find anything suitable. The budget was very poor then. And then the mother-in-law let them live with her.



They lived well together, there was no problem. My mother-in-law built a daughter-in-law, and she did not resist much. The character of the girl was soft: she listened to her mother-in-law, but always did in her own way. But no one held any grudges.

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And so all the household members went to work, and the girl was left home alone. I woke up and, seeing cherries in the freezer, I desperately wanted to put on dumplings.



The cherries were mother-in-law, and she had previously called her at work to ask permission. However, she was not there at the time. She waited a short time and quickly put on a whole slide of dumplings. They used to make them in their family often. That's why I did it in an hour. And myself, and of course my husband and his mother. I thought they would come back and eat together. But that wasn't it.



My husband came and was happy. I put dumplings on both cheeks. He really liked them. Mary was glowing with happiness and waiting for her mother-in-law. When my mother-in-law came, she started screaming in her voice. A smile came off Mary's face. It turns out that she cooked these cherries for a cake that she was thinking of baking for the anniversary.



The evening was ruined. The daughter-in-law cried all night. The guy got angry and decided to move after that.



They did not communicate with his mother for about a year, but how he decided to invite his mother to his housewarming party. Mom brought a huge bowl of dumplings. Everyone laughed and ate to death.

This is how a wise woman solved a terrible conflict. Everyone was able to forget domestic grievances, and still live, apparently, is separate from parents. How do you handle family disputes? Do you hold back or yell and then apologize? Write about it in the comments.