What to do if in her later years, the mother became selfish and decided to live for herself

I am sure that people who They want to live for pleasure., condemned at all times. In one way or another, everyone who wants to enjoy their lives will experience the dissatisfied views of others. Today’s story is about such a girl. I will tell you it, and you will decide whether to condemn the main character who chose life in the big city or not.

The universal stereotype that a mother must put her whole life on the well-being of her children is not liked by everyone. Nina Stepanovna, mother of two adult daughters, does not like this stereotype. That is why she was very controversial about her sister’s legacy.



What happened? Nina married early and had two beautiful daughters. Husband The notorious "captain of the long voyage". Two years after the birth of the youngest Lisa, he disappeared and was never seen again. Raising two children turned out to be oh how difficult, and yet Nina Stepanovna spent all her best years on it. Of course, it was not easy and some problems the woman could not solve.



For example, the children did not have their own apartments when they grew up. The family lived in a village, and all they had was a small house and a garden. The girls grew up and got married. scatter. And Nina stayed on her own, and even retired much earlier for health reasons. To all the other delights of life was added a sick sister Lyuda, who needed care.



So Nina. I moved to the city, to Luda's apartment.. At first, her sister’s lifestyle surprised her. Luda lived for her own pleasure. She had no children and no husband and spent all her money. beautifully. Even to her own sister, she was quite condescending, if not careless: “If you don’t look after me, Ninok, someone else will do it.” But then my apartment will not go to you.

Is it possible to live differently...

Nina was shocked by this statement. However, the longer she lived with Luda, the more she started. share. Soon she was left alone, with a huge apartment in the city and a completely changed view of life and its components. What about Nina's kids? Married ladies who are used to the fact that mother gave everything in her life to themI was hoping the situation would repeat itself this time. One of the daughters took a mortgage on an apartment with her husband and expected that part of the sale of the apartment inherited by her mother would help cover the loan amount.



The second daughter was going to give birth to a third child, although she lived in a rented apartment with her husband. She hoped. Buying a small apartment for your family with the same means. The bear’s skin was completely separated. Nina decided not to sell the apartment, but to move into it. She liked life in the big city. For the first time in her life, she felt lives for himself. And for the first time she felt really happy.



Here are the daughters. They were angry with their selfish mother.Who did everything for them when they were kids. By the way, they did not help her to look after her weakening sister, but showed up only when she had already rested in peace. Like her. He dared to despise his children and grandchildren.? How dare she live her remaining years for herself while enjoying an active city life? Of course, they stopped communicating with their mother.

Selfish mother or ungrateful children? It seems that Nina can be understood, and her children too. My mother always gave me the last shirt. And Nina finally decided to live for her pleasure. What would you do in the place of Nina Stepanovna?