The most serious mistake that the parents in the upbringing of boys

It is believed that boys need to educate tougher than girls. But a recent study showed that to boys in the first years of life should be treated even more tender and attentive than the girls.

The website explains why this is so important and how to educate boys.

Why are boys harder? Neuropsychoanalysis Allan Shor gave an overview of the research of his colleagues, which States that the right hemisphere of the brain in boys develops slowerthan in girls. Because of this, boys are less sensitive to sounds and people around her, more irritable and Moody. Theycarry heavier stress and less resistant to neuropsychiatric disorders (e.g. ADHD, autism) that manifest at an early age.

The lack of contact with the mother leads to increased motor excitability and affects the formation in the brain neural connections that are responsible for self-control and socialization.

Strong tender relationship with her mother is vital to boys. This greatly affects the development of their immature right brain in the first year of life.





5 tips Allan Shor the parents of boys

• Do not separate mother and baby at birth. Separation immediately after birth is stressful for all children, but for boys this is especially harmful as it leads to a surge of the hormone cortisol. If cortisol levels are elevated for a long time, it can affect brain development and the child's health.
• Spend with the baby the whole paid parental leave, at least the first year. During this period children are most vulnerable.
• Don't be rigid in the education of boys, especially in the first years of life. Protect them from stress with patience think of the manifestation of negative emotions. Forbid them not to cry, not shame for this, and don't leave alone when crying. Often hug and kiss them.
• Little boys big negative impact do environmental toxins (e.g. phenols). They are destructive impact on the development of the right hemisphere of the brain. Be careful to what surrounds the baby.

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