9 ways to be good parents, doing nothing

Parenting takes a lot of strength and energy, and usually people understand this simple truth from the first minutes of birth pangs.

However, we would not be myself if I wasn't trying to cheat: parents are constantly trying to cheat time (and their children), carve out five minutes for yourself, to look for bèbisitterom, to throw responsibility, protonov from under the pillow: "Now it's your turn".





We know how lazy ever to do something, being in the same room together with their own, infinitely loved child. So we have done everything for you — pameli the corners of the Internet and found an excellent selection of tips that will help lazy parents to interact with children, not putting this much effort.

1. Laugh with the children.

It's fun, free and it does not have anywhere to go. Children joke very stupid, because it's funny — just allow yourself to relax and hear the absurdity that they are. The rush of endorphins provided.





2. Sleep.

At any opportunity! If you have an infant, sleep with him (never mind the Ironing of diapers with two sides who really need to). If you have a toddler, the more sleep — you can lie in bed while he sits in his pajamas on the floor, picking his toys. You can even take a NAP on the couch in the middle of the day, about 15 minutes including kid cartoons.

3. More drink.

I mean, water. Dehydration makes us aggressive and lethargic (and together they form a deadly combination), so be careful that the house was always clean water. It really helps.

4. Hug children often.

Physical contact with the child helps strengthen the emotional bond with him, and also serves as a tempering procedure, you do give him a lot of bacteria that has accumulated on you while you lay on the couch.

5. Don't do anything.

Let the child feel the power of boredom and doing nothing and he'll figure out something to entertain. I bet it's full of all sorts of creative sets, which he never touched. Most of the time.





6. Be yourself.

Let the child know that you are not the perfect parents. You may have a headache, we may not know the answers to some questions you may forget the name of his favorite superheroes and best friends. Just admit it in front of the child instead of angry, to sneer and shout at him. And energy will save, which is useful to drink a glass of water.

7. Listen.

Give your child the opportunity to tell you something. Grab a coffee (or water!). Just nod in the right places, answer interjections, and then ask questions if you have them appear. Maybe the child won't need feedback, because it will satisfy their desire to share with someone their news.





8. Do not compare your child with anyone.

Neither with themselves or with other children or with your fantasy and expectations. It's a waste of time for you and extra facilities for children.

9. Give your child the opportunity to fail.

Now for example, he unsuccessfully (but with enthusiasm) assembles a puzzle or want to put a cube on a ball. And you see that there is nothing he can't do it and want to help by word or deed. Continue to lie. Let explores the world, its possibilities and the laws of physics and logic.published

 



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Source: n-e-n.ru/lazyparents/