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Only offends those who benefits from it
What happens if you start to tell people the truth?
PEOPLE WILL STOP TALKING TO YOU
If you begin to speak the truth, be ready that some people will stop talking to you. It can be your family members, your friends, your colleagues and your investors. Be prepared for what your environment will change dramatically and this applies both to real people and your "friends" in social networks.
When you tell the truth, it is difficult someone not to offend. But also know that only offends those who benefits from it. If a person is honest with themselves, it is very difficult to offend. He can only cause confusion of his actions.
PEOPLE WILL THINK YOU ARE CRAZY
Reading your records or communicating with you personally, many will begin to arise a natural question: "are You crazy?!" It is possible that they will begin to ask this question to your friends or relatives, be interested in your overall mental state. Someone could politely recommend a good doctor.
PEOPLE WILL BE AFRAID
People will start to hang labels on you. Someone will say that you're just trying to stand out among the crowd and be "different" — crazy town, a madman or a genius — who will understand? Someone would call an upstart. To tell the truth — the behavior is not entirely natural for modern Homo sapiens, and nobody likes corporate meeting is somebody gets up and starts to tell the truth about what is wrong. No one likes to tell the truth about the obviously bad things.
PEOPLE WILL FIND YOU FUNNY
After surrounding get used to your statement, some will even find you funny and people will slowly start to come back to you. It will be interesting that this time vychudit this crazy? And, most importantly, they are confident in the 100% truthfulness of the written or spoken by you. You will become for them almost the only source of news "without censorship". You will become something of a series, which is hard to break away, only cooler.
PEOPLE WILL BEGIN TO TRUST YOUR ADVICE
After the stage of addiction and prisypanija, people will begin to trust you. Because they will know exactly what you'll tell them the truth, and will not sing in your ear beautiful story only in order to sell something. They can dislike you, they may even fear you, but come anyway. You may become something of a last resort, by king Solomon in his settlement.
YOU WILL BE FREE
And last, the most pleasant stage — you will be free from your Golden cage of its own brand and build me a new brand that will have no boundaries. Of course it will be a temporary condition, but loads of matted from his shoulders.
If earlier, you said that you really liked or that you really thought on a particular occasion due to the fact that he was afraid someone not to fall or lose friends, now you can safely say what they really think, believe, feel, feel. Because there will be people you like because of their personal preferences, not because you agree with them only in order to please.
At this point, you will feel better, because now do not need to keep track of what you have written, or of what dressed, or for those with whom you now appear on the photos. You are you. And for those people who love you, appreciate you and trust you because of this. But before that you need to walk and not stay in the previous stages.
Also do not confuse honesty and truth with outright rudeness and brutality. This freedom does not mean that you can say nasty things right and left. This freedom means that you can now build your social circle based on trust, to make himself better and learn to take responsibility for what was said.
And remember that truth and honesty are relative concepts, it is all your own is a process and the ability to speak aloud and to give their opinion now, which may change from case to case and over time. Honest and truthful communication is necessary to get closer to his truth and to help others do the same, even then these concepts are very disperse.
Eckhart Tolle: the Law of Abundance — the output stream determines the incoming
Indecision is a decision to leave things as they are
And, you know, before someone put their honest truth — ask them whether they want the interlocutors to hear it, and if not — then find the strength to remain silent... And try not to argue but to share and to discuss your concern, and not to gossip and discuss! published
Source: www.ranibu.ru/stadii-vashey-pravdyi.html
PEOPLE WILL STOP TALKING TO YOU
If you begin to speak the truth, be ready that some people will stop talking to you. It can be your family members, your friends, your colleagues and your investors. Be prepared for what your environment will change dramatically and this applies both to real people and your "friends" in social networks.
When you tell the truth, it is difficult someone not to offend. But also know that only offends those who benefits from it. If a person is honest with themselves, it is very difficult to offend. He can only cause confusion of his actions.
PEOPLE WILL THINK YOU ARE CRAZY
Reading your records or communicating with you personally, many will begin to arise a natural question: "are You crazy?!" It is possible that they will begin to ask this question to your friends or relatives, be interested in your overall mental state. Someone could politely recommend a good doctor.
PEOPLE WILL BE AFRAID
People will start to hang labels on you. Someone will say that you're just trying to stand out among the crowd and be "different" — crazy town, a madman or a genius — who will understand? Someone would call an upstart. To tell the truth — the behavior is not entirely natural for modern Homo sapiens, and nobody likes corporate meeting is somebody gets up and starts to tell the truth about what is wrong. No one likes to tell the truth about the obviously bad things.
PEOPLE WILL FIND YOU FUNNY
After surrounding get used to your statement, some will even find you funny and people will slowly start to come back to you. It will be interesting that this time vychudit this crazy? And, most importantly, they are confident in the 100% truthfulness of the written or spoken by you. You will become for them almost the only source of news "without censorship". You will become something of a series, which is hard to break away, only cooler.
PEOPLE WILL BEGIN TO TRUST YOUR ADVICE
After the stage of addiction and prisypanija, people will begin to trust you. Because they will know exactly what you'll tell them the truth, and will not sing in your ear beautiful story only in order to sell something. They can dislike you, they may even fear you, but come anyway. You may become something of a last resort, by king Solomon in his settlement.
YOU WILL BE FREE
And last, the most pleasant stage — you will be free from your Golden cage of its own brand and build me a new brand that will have no boundaries. Of course it will be a temporary condition, but loads of matted from his shoulders.
If earlier, you said that you really liked or that you really thought on a particular occasion due to the fact that he was afraid someone not to fall or lose friends, now you can safely say what they really think, believe, feel, feel. Because there will be people you like because of their personal preferences, not because you agree with them only in order to please.
At this point, you will feel better, because now do not need to keep track of what you have written, or of what dressed, or for those with whom you now appear on the photos. You are you. And for those people who love you, appreciate you and trust you because of this. But before that you need to walk and not stay in the previous stages.
Also do not confuse honesty and truth with outright rudeness and brutality. This freedom does not mean that you can say nasty things right and left. This freedom means that you can now build your social circle based on trust, to make himself better and learn to take responsibility for what was said.
And remember that truth and honesty are relative concepts, it is all your own is a process and the ability to speak aloud and to give their opinion now, which may change from case to case and over time. Honest and truthful communication is necessary to get closer to his truth and to help others do the same, even then these concepts are very disperse.
Eckhart Tolle: the Law of Abundance — the output stream determines the incoming
Indecision is a decision to leave things as they are
And, you know, before someone put their honest truth — ask them whether they want the interlocutors to hear it, and if not — then find the strength to remain silent... And try not to argue but to share and to discuss your concern, and not to gossip and discuss! published
Source: www.ranibu.ru/stadii-vashey-pravdyi.html
