12 ways to be the meanest mom in the world Bashny.Net

When your children tell you that you are angry, take it as a compliment. The younger generation considered the most lazy, the most gross and extremely uncool in history. Don't give up. Let the kids think you're angry now, but someday they will thank you.





One day I walked out of the store to prevent the tantrum of the child regarding the purchase of cookies. In the Parking lot we were stopped by a woman who told me that I was a better parent at the Mall. My daughter did not. When your children tell you that you are angry, take it as a compliment.

The younger generation considered the most lazy, the most rude and very uncool in the history of the world. Stories about spoiled rotten kids scaring even the model mom. But this is not the fault of children, it is the fault of the parents. Easy only want to curb their brats, it needs something else to do.

In the end, perhaps each of us would not want to be a calm mom? Don't give up! Children may assume you are angry now, but later they will certainly be grateful to you.

1. Make their children go to bed on time.

We all know how important adequate sleep for the health of the child. Take control and send the baby to sleep. Nobody says that children should want to go to bed. Initially they will respond to your words, to protest, but over time, seeing that you're determined, you will realize that you are serious as never before.

2. Don't spoil children daily desserts.

Sweets should be reserved for special occasions. In this case, they will be "happy". If you all the time to encourage the child, he will no longer perceive sweets as a reward. In addition, it can lead to poor health and dental problems.

3. Teach your child to pay for everything he wants.

If you want something, you have to pay money. It works in adult life. To accustom the child to independence, you should explain to him that every thing has its price. All the things that they like (devices, video games, the camping trip), has a certain value. If the child will have to pay for it is part of their accumulated money, and value received, it will be more.

This technique will also allow you to save on useless "wishlist" of your child. After all, if he's not ready to part with some of their own money to buy some new things, then actually it is for him not so important and the desire to possess her is not so great as it might seem initially.

4. Don't be shy.

Some kids are bitterly disappointed when, after getting a job, you know that they set certain rules and limitations. They should arrive on time, do what they say. And, moreover, part of the job they do not like. If you don't like your child's teacher, the position on the football field or just a bus stop, you must avoid the temptation to change the situation.

Surrounding the child with maximum comfort, you are depriving him of the ability to harden even in the most difficult and unpleasant situation. In adult life not so sweet and easy. Remember, if you don't teach your child to put up with unpleasant situations, you are dooming him to a life of a loser.

5. Force them to do difficult tasks.

Do not think that to give a difficult job is wrong. On the contrary, there is nothing that will give the child confidence in their abilities as performing difficult tasks. A sense of pride in yourself will allow you to conquer new heights in the future.

6. Give your child a watch and an alarm clock.

Teach your child to manage their time. You can't always be there to remind you that it's time to turn off the TV and start packing.

7. Do not buy the latest news and all the biggest.

Teach your children gratitude and satisfaction in the things that they have. If a child receiving one, immediately begins to dream about even greater, it will not lead to anything good. It's called life in debt.

8. Let the child know what loss.

If your child breaks toys, not run to buy a new one. The only way you will be able to teach him a valuable lesson about how to take care of your belongings. If your child has homework, make it yourself pass all the tasks on the topic. So you will teach him responsibility.

9. Baby monitor viewed by the media and the Internet page.

If all the other parents will allow their children to jump off a bridge, will you do the same? Do not let your child watch a show or play a video game, not intended for children, only for the reason that all of his peers parents allow. If you stick to a decent upbringing, believe me, over time, other parents will catch up with you.

10. Teach your child to take responsibility for their words and actions.

If the child did something bad, get him to admit it and face the consequences. Do not dismiss the rudeness, vandalism or dishonesty. Show an example that the child knew how to act in the future.

11. Mind your manners.

Children from an early age can learn to treat other people with respect and dignity. You will make the child a huge favor if you teach him to be polite. Good manners will enable them to get what they want. Appropriate here will be saying: "Honey more catch flies than vinegar".

12. Make them work for the good.

Help grandma in the village or volunteer to teach smaller little brothers and sisters – all this should be part of your child's life. Assistance should be part of his life. Only in this case the child will be able to understand that other people also have their own problems and needs, which are sometimes much more than himself.







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Never forget each time to praise and reward the child for correct behavior. And always tell him how much you love him. The only way you will be able to reverse the situation, with the result that the new generation will be worthy and strong. published

 

Author: Megan Wallgren

 



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