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"There is the great, near which all seem to be fine. However, a truly great man is one with whom one feels great,"Charles Dickens What allows some people to consider themselves "better" than others? Money, a prestigious education, high position, social status? Nationality, place of birth, affiliation to a particular religious denomination? Height, weight, color of hair or eyes? Brand car? Intellectual giftedness or physical attraction? Why do we sometimes think that comparing two people at any visible to the naked eye the criteria, we will be able to make right conclusion about the depth and quality of all of them. How can you judge the "significance" of the person, if unknown to us Supreme slyselea incarnation on this planet? You can know and say about the other, themselves if some really do not feel and do not understand.


If the child is not really enough, this does not mean that he is now "loser". The role of the student and student is only one of the spheres, but not the whole life, in addition to academic performance is affected by so many factors — from psychological atmosphere and living conditions in the parental family to the relationship with teachers and classmates, and storiesbusty many cases where lagging behind a child suddenly became an outstanding entrepreneur or a master of his craft. Once just took for themselves, to fill the gaps in knowledge that were needed, and made sure he had dreamed. It is important to preserve the child's sense of the significance of his life — we love you as a son/daughter, you are valuable to us as a family member, as mother and the person as a good friend. If a person, for example, have an accident or have a congenital physical limitations, it does not mean that you need to "put a cross on it" or consider him to be unhappy and unlucky. How do we know why it happened, and why was this necessary? "Each person measured their own path length and the extent of the suffering", but the best thing you can do in relation to the person with disabilities is to see him as a person, not the body. Deviations in physical development and appearance of the body is just different from the usual way of functioning of the physical body, "disability is a way of transportation and not a lifestyle", but in modern society, unfortunately, these thoughts are not really conscious. I once met a very strange artist who saw the world incomprehensible from my point of view the way, but meeting him gave me one nice idea: "to See beauty in the perfect is a very simple matter, - said he. - You try to see beautiful in her unattractive or where people are not used to see her". That's the truth. About money, status, education, attractiveness — all the same - it's not in stock, but how we manage what we have. The money is not bad, but money is only a tool, a mirror of our inner world. Beauty is a relative concept, because of the cold and silly beauty very tired, by itself it has no value. Visual appeal is a gift that helps to win over people, but without a good heart it will not bring a lot of happiness. Beautiful body gets old, sooner or later it loses its appeal, a beautiful soul with age reinforces it. The talents themselves do nothing, they need to apply in life — the more generously endowed by nature, the more demand from him. Much has been given, so counting on you and believe in you, increase your inner goodness, multiply what came into this world, don't get stuck in place. Giftedness is not an excuse to put themselves above others. Any skills are not an absolute indicator of "development". The person is strongly influenced by the environment in which he grew up, if a child, for example, in a family not observed the mode of the day, the child is very difficult to organize your home learning process, therefore, it will lag in some areas, but if it overlaps even on a bad relationship with a teacher at the school, poor progress on the subject consider provided. Or people have grown up with adults who did not own a competent speech, and all these turns of phrase and statement accents are embedded in us very strongly, for retraining in adulthood often requires a lot of effort. The level of spiritual development and academic education of significant adults strongly influence a child's personality development, but it is very important that we learn not to belittle the importance of human rights and not put it in dependence on the starting conditions, it is important to remember that a man can change himself, we must try to inspire him to a positive change in yourself. Believe me, even two or three years of conscious self may well change a person that no one will remember how uneducated, ugly and insecure he was before, and if we remember, they will respect even more, because people appreciate honest and quality work. Not every person is destined to be an outstanding scientist or a talented artist, not to everyone's fate is supposed to do business and have great earnings, not everyone needs to aspire to high office and have access to power and high authority, many of those who have so much coming up, just can't handle the load that comes along with a high social or professional status. But! Every person is significant! Each person plays their role, each person is useful exactly where he is. Politicians, businessmen, scientists and salesmen and postal workers, and fitters and turners, and agronomists, and the priests, and artists, singers and bakers are all important. Every person on this earth, there is no profession better or worse, no nationality is better or worse, there are no people better or worse, is the way the individual souls that came here to learn, there are activities that fit one and not a very attractive for others. Our task is to choose the type of activity, by which we can best Express our inborn potential to be useful for other people and try to do it properly. Photographer it is important to try to see and capture in a man this beauty, which, perhaps, the man himself did not realize, a photographer has the power to show people their beauty. It is important for teachers to see the potential in a child and try to inspire and guide the student towards maximum realization of its potential. Doctor it is important to pay careful attention to the problems of people coming to him need with compassion and care to help the patient find the path to healing not only the body, but sick in his soul. The chef is very important to cook with love, to try to put food in its heat and delight guests with beautiful and delicious dishes. Secretary it is important to create a good atmosphere in the office, coordinate the work of the people, to help the leader and the supervisor it is important to become such a leader, about which people start to grow and develop.The leader is the one around which all grow. No matter what position you work and what you do in your professional activities, it is important to understand that your work affects the comfort, well-being and sometimes the lives of others, so it's important to see behind every business are people, people with their life stories, difficult lives, their aspirations and experiences. Our office does not come "client", the doctor comes to the patient, in the University setting there is not "student", a person, a living person, a significant person. Its significance is not determined by the value of its machines and not by the quality of his clothes, not height, weight, skin color, and not even the intellectual endowments, and the fact that he's the same as every one of us is made of flesh and blood, endowed with spiritual qualities, which may be on a different stage of development, but that's okay, everyone learns in his class. Attitude is how we treat other people, so the level of intellectual or spiritual development of who we found on the way is irrelevant, all that matters is that we've walked on our own path and how to relate to another person. "People judge things and events in accordance with what we have in ourselves" (Elder paisios of the Holy mountain). If we consider ourselves more evolved, so we should have more heart, love, wisdom and patience to communicate with those who go some other way, and it should be understood that all are equally important. In the body's what is more important — the leg or arm? kidney or liver? eyes or ears? All important, all significant, but still remember what a small match, but not going to cook dinner, if you do not find the fire. And the stove is out, and pan, and a soup boil, and it is so small and insignificant match, right? The needle on the sewing machine will break, and nothing will make, though, and the threads and fabric are prepared. Each of us who is the thread who needle who hammer who saw who the nail. Do not consider themselves too small for great things and too great to consider himself also not necessary)) Every person is significant, you just need to find their place in life, but not to compare yourself with other people, and to listen to your inner voice, meditate and seek your own path. But then, what can be the significance of each of us right now is our role in the family because we were always necessary and important. We all need to try to be good children, parents, sisters and brothers, friends and just good people for those who lives and grows around us. Man with big and kind heart is the most beautiful and priceless treasure on this earth.published Author Dina Richards

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