Do not yell at the child...

The seminars, which I conduct for parents, is an exercise that helps to understand that the child feels being yelled at. It goes like this:

 

Parents are divided into pairs.

 

One member of the pair must stand and shout to the other for some invented reason, and the other party, in turn, squat or kneel to be so much shorter to say only one sentence:

 

"I'M SMALL AND I JUST WANT TO BE LOVED".

 





By about the third repetition of this phrase, one parent who is on the site

the child starts crying, tears flow without stopping...

Come very strong feelings. Often memories from your own childhood...

After this exercise, to yell at his child becomes almost impossible.





All participants say that for the first time really deeply felt,

what feels at this time a child...published

 

Author: Ekaterina Buslova

 

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