The paradox of love.

The main problem of love that some of the partners are often not mature.

If you are a mature person psychologically, spiritually, you will not fall in love with the child. In the mature man enough integrity to be alone. When a mature person gives love - it just gives you, he feels gratitude for what you have accepted it, not vice versa. He does not expect that you'll be grateful for it, he does not need your gratitude. He thanks you for what you took his love.

When two mature people love each other, to the extent they are together, that is almost one, but does not destroy the unity of individuality - in fact, it enhances it, they become more individual.


Two mature persons in love help each other to become free. There is no policy, no diplomacy, no attempts to subjugate another. How can you try to subdue the man you love? Just think about it - a kind of subordination of hatred, anger, hostility. How can you even think about how to subdue the man you love?

Their personality do not mix - they are amplified.