Stereotypes education

1. "Do not drink cold water, and then a sore throat».
 - Sore throat is not from the cold water, and from unexpressed emotions / thoughts.
If the child is not to plug the mouth when he speaks, screams, cries, and did not scold him for his words, emotions and ways of expressing them, it will not hurt his throat.

2. "Do not play about with the food.»
 - Children do not know how to indulge. They know the world and the physical properties of objects, including food.

3. "Do not look so close, and it will break eye / vision Posada»
 - What is broken? Where vision is planted, on the couch or something?)))
Vision deteriorates (becoming nearsighted) when formed unpleasant associations with the future. For example, when an adult says, roughly: "grow up here - to learn", "grow up - you will understand how difficult life is / is earned, etc.»
As well as the vision becomes myopic when a person refuses to see the details, too, as a consequence of restrictions on it.
Children love everything considered, to touch, including on the street, and the adults they pull, bump, need not to bother, not tinkering. Parents pull children out of every possible macrocosm into adult life is boring.

4. "Stop fooling around / messing / rave».
 - Yes, why would it? When else fooled, but as a child?
If a child does not nadurachitsya as it should, then it is the desire to "stay clown" will continue to come out as an adult in the strangest forms and images in the background of the overall severity of a person. Also be accompanied by internal dissatisfaction.

5. "What are you talking about! Are not you ashamed ?! »
 - It is fraught with the child to hang on shame and guilt. Adult so discards his responsibility for themselves, their state, their level of consciousness, his method of education for the child. And then the child is living with this stranger cargo ill becomes unhappy, angry at the world, begins pakostnichat and mischievous.

6. "Stop bawling! Calm down! »
 - It's like saying: "Enough to purify their soul, leave the inner pain in myself and live with it on, pretend that you do not hurt yourself fool».
Do not cry the pain will always accumulate and make the child more angry and stale.

7. "fall, hit, hurt will».
 - If you talk like a child, then so be it. These words - it's not a warning to the child, and the facts that are programmed his mind to such an outcome.
Instead of such phrases to help your child to try yourself, where I have not tried it, give him a hand, to support, to instill in the child's confidence in his abilities and skills.