Unobvious signs that reveal an envious person who secretly hates you

These are mysterious “heavy” people. They look like us, go to work, smile and joke. But after contact with them, protection from the evil eye is required. Come on! They have one strong quality: envy, corroding and murderous. Their speeches and praise burn like acid. And after their help, I want to wash. How do you know that someone secretly envies you and even hates you? Read more about it.



They strive to sniff out everything about your successes and outdo them “A friend is someone who has not been swallowed by envy over the years.” That's right. People tend to share news with loved ones and be interested in their affairs. Sincere curiosity is rallying. It is another thing if a person with manic enthusiasm tries to extort the smallest detail of your life. It's a sign of jealousy. He compares himself to you, looking for weaknesses.

It is possible to calculate a wolf in sheep’s clothing on this basis. A “heavy” person tries to outdo you at all costs. You tell him about his successes - he gives something more impressive in response. To shine brighter on your background.



Because of low self-esteem, envious people are obsessed with others’ approval and admiration. They will do anything to become leaders, even in friendship. Did you buy a new phone? He'll buy a newer model. Will you see a new wardrobe item? First he criticizes your taste, and then he will appear at the meeting in the same thing.

It's going to sound weird, but that person wants to be you and even better. You may notice that it adopts your language, habits, and even walking style. At first it may be flattering, but sooner or later it will become annoying. Their obsession with you can get to the point of absurdity. Just to take you a few steps.

Envious people have no personal boundaries and easily cross others. They like to extort intimate details and do not understand even direct hints when to stop. Without hesitation of conscience, they can climb into someone else’s bag or documents, without a good reason to impose themselves on a visit.



A bright red flag is a sharp change in the topic of conversation when you start talking about your positive results, pleasant experience and success. You just get interrupted and start a new topic. Thus, a person tries to reduce tension due to the growing sense of insecurity.

With people like that, you'll feel like a loser. Every decision you make, they'll criticize you. They will prove that it is doomed to failure. The envious will find a spoonful of tar even where there is none. It will make you doubt every step of the way.

A detractor needs you to stop trusting your feelings and experiences. Thus, he adds importance to his person. He knows better from the outside. If you stick around, the envious person will simply hook you up with his “authoritative” opinion, without which you will not be able to step.



In fact, such people have such tiny egos that other people’s ambitions cut them with a knife. Like the crabs in the bucket. If one tries to get out, the others will drag him to the bottom.

A person who offers unsolicited help or advice, as if broadcasting a message: “What can you do without me, stupid.” Even if a loved one is bad or does not succeed, it is worth asking how exactly you can help him. Otherwise, the imposed support will only undermine his self-confidence.

It is beneficial to the envious that you meekly accept his invaluable gift in the form of a sign of attention. In a way that seems appropriate to him, not to you. Doing a favor, he will secretly wait for the moment when he can shake you off.

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Alone with you, a person may be sweet, but in company he has sharp teeth. Surprising friendliness is replaced by hamstrings, ambiguous hints and passive aggression.

A jealous person will try to put you in an awkward position so that as many people as possible support his cruel joke. As soon as you're rightly outraged, you'll write it off as a joke. They will say, “You’re not going to say anything,” or “You’re not going to say anything.”



Congratulate with success without sincerity Podkhalim is ready to bite his elbows, so as not to see your happy face. He can't stand watching you celebrate success. At such moments, he feels special vulnerability and discomfort. Therefore, it is easiest for him to devalue your achievements by citing luck.

Envious people tend to trample the fruits of other people's labor into the dirt. All this allegedly happened by pure chance! Don’t expect them to be honest about your talents and skills, even if you’ve worked hard for your goal day and night.



Protection from the evil eye: what to do with the envious? Envy erodes any relationship. Constant criticism, hidden aggression and depreciation can crush even a person with stable self-esteem. What do you do when someone around you doesn’t make healthy contact?

If you care about him, you can give him a second chance. Speak clearly, constructively and openly everything that worries you. Show me: this is how you can communicate with me, but this is how you can't. Follow your counterpart. If he's not ready to respect the boundaries, well, let him. The best solution is to let someone out of your life. Don’t worry: it will be replaced by those who inspire, motivate and sincerely rejoice in all your manifestations.



There will always be people who really like us. And those who can't stand us. And in order not to provoke either, Bernard Shaw recommends that you learn not to tell anyone. And then everything will be fine!

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