At the end of the evening, I decided to thank my mother-in-law for the treats, so I happened to see her giving money to her daughter.

Human injustice To their own children can lead to the fact that over time these same children will grow up and their attitude to their parents will be completely unsatisfactory. This is how our brain works: it perfectly leaves in the subcortex all childhood psychological traumas and resentments. We may not even remember them, but the subconscious mind is not going anywhere.



Peels On the other hand, adult children already understand what is what. You can't fool them anymore. They know who is their favorite and who their parents value least. That doesn’t happen in large families. Therefore, one of the heirs with pleasure remains in the parental house to gray hair, and someone strives to live separately even before graduating from school.

It is wrong for people to judge others. So let's do without censure. We will try to be positive, it certainly will not hurt in our time. To blame the elders is probably wrong. Even if they deserve it.

So, my husband has a younger sister, Lilya. She looks like her brother like two drops of water. I don’t think she’s a bad person, but I know she was raised a little wrong. Well, that sounds to me, at least. A girl, of course, should behave like a girl, but you can already grow up a little when you turn 30. Just a little bit.



Peels and Lilya is not going to grow up. Really, why? She has a husband, a tall blonde with a fancy hairstyle. He makes good money, so she can sit at home and do her favorite hobby: pouring scented soap into shapes. And everyone's kind of happy.

My parents bought Lila and Anton, my husband, an apartment. Not a bad start for family life, I think. My parents, for example, wished me luck and even for the wedding handed some huge set of Soviet dishes, well, thank you. So I have a very good relationship with my mother-in-law. And I always make Anton go to family holidays, which he usually prefers to avoid.



Peels’ father-in-law built a house outside the city. They started a house there, purely for the soul, a garden. Apparently, to remember the village childhood, but not to overexert. They spent two decades working abroad. They and their children have a normal life. It's a very worthy act, I think. Now, they're resting. That's great!

Like I said, I have a good relationship with my mother-in-law. We often talk on the phone, go shopping. She told me a lot from their past lives, how they and their father-in-law mined and stacked these pennies, how they progressed through work. It's hard to even listen, not to be in their shoes. And I, in turn, share the news of our life with her son. You could say we made great friends.



When the father-in-law started repairing the house, I was the first to volunteer to help them. I pushed Anton, made him work, too. I don't know anything about repairs myself, but I'll have enough for "bring-seat." We spent a lot of weekends on this case, but we spent time together, talked and helped each other. That's good!

Unfortunately, Lilya chose to abandon this type of activity. She didn’t come and bring her blonde. Oddly enough, they're her parents. I had the feeling that I was pouting for everyone. That's probably their temperament.

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When the repair was finally done, the father-in-law wanted to somehow thank us and invited everyone to their party with kebabs. We invited everyone, although it was only me and Anton. This time Lilya and her husband chose to come, even without snacks. I was tempted by them to somehow prick, but I still resisted and restrained.

At the end of the evening, when the time for decent guests was coming to an end, I separated from my husband and decided to go to my beloved mother-in-law, thank you for the treat. But she wasn't alone, I found her in Lily's company, away from the others. The mother-in-law quietly, so as not to be heard, handed her daughter a bundle of money, probably several thousand in currency. Which Lilya, however, took without much emotion, as if something taken for granted.

At home, alone with my husband, I decided to remember this moment and told him everything. His reaction was... I don't have much emotion. It turned out that he had known about it for a long time. Moreover, his mother often gave Lila money for nothing and everyone in their family knew about it. They just didn't focus on it. Favorite daughter, youngest child. Why not help her if you have the opportunity? This is how the injustice of the people is manifested!



In order for you to understand and just be able to compare, last birthday Anton was given a scarf. Nice scarf, cashmere. But that's nothing compared to what my sister-in-law gets for nothing, every few months! Then I realized why my husband is so cool to his parents and so reluctant to go to their joint family meetings.

So it's my fault that I've been dragging him around all the time. I can't hide my feelings. I really like spending time with my mother-in-law. And the father-in-law, it seems, a normal man. They always welcome me, they smile. I never noticed any negativity from them. But I'm not married to them, I'm married to their son. Which, in my opinion, they treat unfairly.



Now I don't even know how to behave. Leave everything as it is and continue active communication with relatives? Then I'll be a bad wife. My husband deserves better treatment. Or do you want to shut down and not go to your mother-in-law anymore? But why, what did they do to me personally? No, you can't either. It's a moral dilemma. How do you get out of it? I don't even know yet...