The daughter in six months gets married, so we decided to meet the parents of the son-in-law, but the meeting took an unpleasant turn.

People are different in many ways. Type of thinking, character, views of life, material and spiritual values of man These are the factors that shape us. It is through them that we create our life and environment. We find friends and meet new, interesting and not very, people.



In life, it is important to provide yourself with such an environment with which it would be comfortable to communicate, spend time and, perhaps, even take on some joint interesting business. Therefore, it is important to maintain good relationships with friends and relatives. People close in spirit can always help. On the contrary, relatives can only bring disappointment.

As a child, my parents always told me that there would be many more boys in my life, so I shouldn’t worry about them. Who knew I would marry my former classmate? But that happens. Now we have two children and we can’t live without each other. Neither my husband nor I have ever regretted the most important decision of our lives.

But don’t think we were both lucky enough to be born with a silver spoon in our mouths. No, that's not at all true. There was a time when there was not enough money. So we had to gather all the will in a fist and go together to work. To another country. The daughters were left on grandparents. Well, at least immediately managed to get a job, so money for life and children we began to send to the parents of the husband immediately. Because of this, there was no conflict between us. Mutual respect can do a lot.

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First of all, we bought a two-bedroom apartment. The two were able to earn more and save on many things. So the right amount came in pretty quickly. And then my husband had an idea: since we're here, stay longer and make money on his own house. In our home country, our prospects were rather vague. So, you see, there's a place to go.

By that time, we were quite hooked and could even take some time off to see the kids. Time was such that it was considered good. The children grew up, their husband’s parents raised them normally. So I was happy. Sometimes you can hear such stories when a son or daughter completely forgets their old people and demands only money and gifts from them. I find this attitude disgusting, to be honest.



Seven years later, the house was built. We honestly sent money to the master who oversaw all the work. We also managed to save some money for the future. There was a bonus to this great news that our eldest daughter had announced that she was going to get married. Without too much fanfare, she said, it's not fashionable to spend money on an unnecessary party for guests. Better save money.

So we went home looking forward to it. A new house, in six months, the daughter gets married, and there is money to at least feel normal for a couple of years, without beating the thresholds of employers. What happens next, we’ll see later.

After a month or two, when we have already recovered, rested, got used to the new big house, it was time to get acquainted with matchmakers. We've already seen the son-in-law, a beautiful guy, an athlete. It was clear that his parents raised him as an intelligent and reliable person. That's good. We bought meat for kebabs, snacks, beautifully decorated the yard so that the guests felt comfortable. And at the appointed hour they arrived.



Unfortunately, after a delicious lunch and light, non-binding phrases, the conversation took a completely different form. For some reason, our future relatives from the very beginning thought that we were building a house for our eldest daughter. She wants to get married and live there with her son. Can you imagine? And we, that is, me, husband and youngest daughter, according to this cunning plan, would have to huddle together in the remaining two-bedroom apartment.

No, of course the repairs are great. But why would we even live there? It has long been leased, and every month we “drip” a good amount, which is not ashamed to spend on some of their goals. A house is like a house. We built it for ourselves. He would be a perfect fit even for the five of us, and the son-in-law wouldn't feel embarrassed there. But that's another matter. However, it can always be discussed.



Material and spiritual values of a person Swats as water in his mouth gained. They said they didn’t even know whether to give them a car for their wedding. To which we replied that it was up to them to decide. My daughter doesn’t even have a right, and they know it well. In short, the conversation from a pleasant conversation turned into rather sharp and offensive studs on both sides. Well, at least everything ended quite harmlessly: matchmakers thanked for the reception and went to their place.



I wonder what they were counting on? That we would just take the best years of our lives and spend it for their son? So what do we have to offer our youngest daughter, an apartment? We will probably have to move to the station. Eh, sometimes I don't understand the logic and decency of other people. How can they paint such a picture of the world in their head? It's unthinkable.