Mom promised that after the wedding she would give my grandmother’s apartment to me and my husband, and then suddenly changed her mind.

My mom started renovating an old apartment last year. Then I thought she was preparing the accommodation for me, says Victoria. The girl recently married, now she lives in a rented apartment with her husband, and until recently, Vika thought that her mother would give her grandmother’s apartment.



Renovation of the old apartment "I just got married". Before the wedding, we discussed apartment issues with our parents. My mother said one thing at first, but it turned out to be quite different. The other day, my mother stunned me with the news that she and my dad were getting divorced. Out of the blue. It was like she was waiting for my wedding to announce my divorce.



My mother is 50 years old. She married her dad 30 years ago. My mom took care of me and my brother all the time, and my dad always supported me as much as he could. He worked from morning to night, brought all the money to the family, he never had bad habits, and I never saw him and his mother seriously argue. This is it.

Apparently, my mother is tired of a quiet happy life. She said she was tired. Like, all the household chores were her responsibility, and Dad came from work and rested on the couch. My mom cleaned up, cooked us food, and we only pestered her with questions about whether there was anything to eat and whether she washed our shoes.



My mother expected me to help her in everything. She did not talk about her brother, he was sloppy all his life. As long as my grandmother was alive, she said I would do my best in life. So my mom didn't force me to do anything.



And when Grandma died, my mother decided to start repairing her apartment. That's how she handled the loss. At that time, my husband and I applied for a painting, and it turned out that I was pregnant. Mom heard all that talk. And when I offered to choose the wallpaper together or help her with repairs, my mother shrugged off.



Before the wedding, my mom packed up and said she was starting a new life in her apartment. We just looked at her questioningly. And then it became clear that she was starting a new life in a renovated apartment, and she advised us to look for rented housing, because the apartment with her father and brother would be a bit crowded.

She knows I'm expecting a baby, and that's how she behaved. We are not in a position to spend money on rented housing. I'm going on maternity leave, and Seryozha doesn't make much money. His parents would love to help, but they don’t have another apartment.



My mother never told anyone about her plans. My question was that no one asked her about the apartment. I just thought I'd have my apartment after the wedding. It's not fair, but my mother doesn't feel guilty.”



Instead of discussing plans for the future with the family, everyone dreamed that the mother would make repairs and present such a generous gift to the bride for the wedding. Some people live illusions and do not even hesitate to claim what does not belong to them. On the other hand, the decision of the mother was unexpected, but if she had warned her family, the conflict could not have been. Who do you think is right in this situation?