Husband hates my cat, I'm afraid to leave them alone in the apartment

Attitudes towards cats It can be different. Some people adore these tailed, others can not tolerate them, others are indifferent. It would seem that this is a completely normal situation.

If people love cats, they get a cat, and if they don’t, they don’t. But it happens that in the family, someone constantly conflicts with a domestic cat and even demands that the animal be sent outside. So how do we solve this problem?



I have known my cat for 10 years. She's very dear to me. There are no relatives left, and this animal connects me to a carefree past. I got used to it scary, Anna writes.

“Not long ago a good guy came into my life. We talked and walked for several months, then we started living with me, then we got married. He's a good man. Sometimes we argue, but quickly reconcile, almost always find a common language. My husband’s relationship with my cat never worked out.



He never had animals, he never loved them. And it seems that even the very existence of a cat in my apartment has become a problem for him. He doesn’t like it when she eats, when she sleeps, when she walks in the tray, even when she rubs on her legs or just walks around the apartment.



At first I tried to reconcile them, then advised my husband not to pay attention to the cat. But the more time passed, the more he found fault with the animal. There were more complaints and discontent. Where did he look before the wedding, because then everything suited him? And now he says that the cat pisses him off, that she behaves badly. I don't get it.



I love the cat and have no complaints about it. She doesn't scotch, she doesn't behave loudly, furniture doesn't scratch, she sleeps a lot. Something is wrong with my husband. It got to the point that he specifically scares her. And she even became afraid of him. I worry about leaving them in the apartment unattended.

It feels like he wants to put me in front of a choice: either the cat or him. And I already understand that this cannot continue forever, we need to find some way out. I can’t reconcile them, I don’t want to divorce them. And I will not put my cat on the street for anything, Anna complains.



It's a strange thing my husband has. catism It only went bad after the wedding. After all, according to Anna, their pet did not deserve to be treated badly. If so, the problem is with the young man. If there are any comments on the behavior of a cat, then they can always be corrected.

In connection with this story recalls the American reality series “Hell cat”, where the conflicts between cats and owners were very acute. But even when pets attacked everyone and everything, tore down furniture and spoiled household appliances, the owners found a way to cope with them. And it's very interesting to see how, with the right approach, you can change the behavior of an animal.



Perhaps Anna's husband should watch a few episodes of Hell's Cat to understand how lucky he is with a calm pet. And also to understand more about cat psychology and in the future it is better to find a common language with a tailed purr.