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Friendship between parents and children
The day of knowledge is over and parents can breathe out. They bought the child textbooks, pens, notebooks and uniforms, obtained a bouquet with which their child pleased their beloved teacher. All right, let's keep learning, get smart and get good grades.
Parents often forget that one thing is wrong. schooling It will not give the child everything necessary for the proper formation of the personality.
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Some moms and dads naively believe that school teachers should guide their child on the path of growing up. But even the most experienced and honored teachers from the best schools will not give the child proper educationThis is the right and duty of the parents.
Nowadays, parents diligently avoid raising a child, giving him full, as they themselves believe, freedom. The father and mother absolve themselves of responsibility and declare that they consider the child their equal. But the idea of equality is dangerous, especially for the child.
Equality occurs when the real opportunities of the child and parents reach equal indicators. But as long as the father and mother provide for the child and solve his problems, they are higher. And if a child does not realize the real inequality and does not start working to develop, he is doomed to failure in society.
The purpose of education is to teach your child to independently solve 3 important tasks: cope with their emotions, provide their needs and be realized in society.
And in order to grow up painlessly, parents must convey to the child the following things.
Educational principles
Of course, knowledge of school subjects is important for modern people. But proper educationIt will give a child much more than memorizing whole pages of text every day for the sake of good marks. And the sooner mom and dad understand this and bring to the consciousness of their beloved child, the easier it will be for the child to grow up and confidently go through life.
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Therefore, do not shift your duties to school teachers. A teacher cannot educate every student, and often does not know how to do it. This means that the responsibility for the proper upbringing of your child lies solely with you. That's right.
What do you think? What children need to know First of all? Is it better to be a friend or an authoritarian parent whose word is the law?
Parents often forget that one thing is wrong. schooling It will not give the child everything necessary for the proper formation of the personality.
DepositPhotos
Some moms and dads naively believe that school teachers should guide their child on the path of growing up. But even the most experienced and honored teachers from the best schools will not give the child proper educationThis is the right and duty of the parents.
Nowadays, parents diligently avoid raising a child, giving him full, as they themselves believe, freedom. The father and mother absolve themselves of responsibility and declare that they consider the child their equal. But the idea of equality is dangerous, especially for the child.
Equality occurs when the real opportunities of the child and parents reach equal indicators. But as long as the father and mother provide for the child and solve his problems, they are higher. And if a child does not realize the real inequality and does not start working to develop, he is doomed to failure in society.
The purpose of education is to teach your child to independently solve 3 important tasks: cope with their emotions, provide their needs and be realized in society.
And in order to grow up painlessly, parents must convey to the child the following things.
Educational principles
- Whoever pays for the music orders it.
DepositPhotos - The desire to communicate on an equal footing with those who pay and solve your problems is rudeness. If you want to set the tone, you can pay the bills.
- Genius, uniqueness and, as a result, pride are qualities that spoil everything and do not bring any benefit in life.
DepositPhotos - Respect must be earned by your actions. No one will honor your boundaries, words and needs.
- It is best to develop not in ideal conditions, but right now. Under ideal conditions, a person degenerates. It develops when confronted with harsh reality, begins to overcome limitations and solve pressing problems.
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Of course, knowledge of school subjects is important for modern people. But proper educationIt will give a child much more than memorizing whole pages of text every day for the sake of good marks. And the sooner mom and dad understand this and bring to the consciousness of their beloved child, the easier it will be for the child to grow up and confidently go through life.
DepositPhotos
Therefore, do not shift your duties to school teachers. A teacher cannot educate every student, and often does not know how to do it. This means that the responsibility for the proper upbringing of your child lies solely with you. That's right.
What do you think? What children need to know First of all? Is it better to be a friend or an authoritarian parent whose word is the law?
