Why Parents Refuse to Involve Older Parents Bashny.Net

Our parents had to face many hardships to give us everything we needed. And in this they were helped not only by parents, but also by society. Modern moms and dads rely more on their own strength and refuse any help from the outside. This is already becoming the norm, although it is still considered a feat.

And today's edition. "Site" It will tell you why today young people deliberately neglect the experience of the older generation, taking all responsibility on their shoulders.



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First we left the community: we stopped sleeping all over at one shop and populated the hives of new buildings. And now we have mastered a new family way: Sasha + Masha + mortgage + planned child. And so it turned out modern nuclear family, — explains education The famous psychologist Mikhail Labkovsky.



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According to the expert, young people no longer blindly trust the experience of the older generation. Statements like “I raised you three and nothing” are no longer impressive, and “nothing” says nothing about getting results.

We recall a negative experience, go through their answers in memory like “forgot to ask you”, “now you will get a belt” or “Shut up, do not shame me”, and we do not like it at all.





Someone deliberately rejects the help of relatives, someone raises children without the help of grandparents for life reasons. But this is slowly becoming the norm, not the exception.

A new generation is rethinking the concept of parenthood. And if our moms and dads blindly followed even the absurd advice of their parents (like burying milk in the nose, smearing gums with garlic, not pampering or bathing at night), then we, armed with critical thinking, common sense and the Internet, went demolish.



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Young parents realized that inability and ignorance are not so bad. After all, no matter how much you are born, no matter how much you educate, you still learn. But it's not much more important. parentingAnd the fact that the child is surrounded by the closest people, those who brought him into this world are mother and father.



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It already seems like something wild to send children to their grandparents for the summer. And even a tired parent will think carefully before sending a beloved child to the village for a week or two.

He immediately thinks about the tricks. After all, the methods of raising relatives may not suit him at all. And grandparents are not always eager to give up work and their own business for the sake of spending time with grandchildren.



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Maybe that's right. Let older relatives enjoy the well-deserved rest, while young parents will raise their children in their own way? What do you think?