Hidden signs of self-love

You can either love yourself or not love yourself. However, the true relationship of a person to himself is difficult to understand, even if you know him not the first day. Sometimes people do not know how much they love and appreciate themselves.

Many problems arise in our head. Our self-esteem and attitude towards ourselves largely guide our consciousness and actions. So today's editorial office. "Site" will tell How to understand your attitude to yourself And what signs indicate a hidden dislike of one’s own self.



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All people are different, and therefore even similar feelings in everyone manifest themselves differently. Someone feels worthless and closes in, does not speak out, does not talk about their rights, does not claim anything. The other hates himself and this is the driving force for his self-development, correction of shortcomings.



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Psychologists believe that most often dislike He puts down a man, makes him disbelieve in his own strength. And here are the signs that a person does not love himself or respect himself.

Signs of self-love

1. He buys a lot of cheap things.
   It is simple: self-loving people do not save on personal needs. They understand that a good thing will not cost a penny, so they are willing to pay more to have quality clothes, comfortable shoes and healthy food on hand. They are not wasteful, do not buy junk, but always put in the personal budget the cost of a comfortable and pleasant life.
   
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2. Eat when you're not hungry.
   When a person loves himself, he pays close attention to his own needs. Therefore, to overeat, just so as not to leave a single crumb in the plate, he will not. Needs are more important than food, not vice versa.
3. Trying to keep his head down.
   Some everywhere try to be the first, while others are shy of attention and avoid it in every way. Moreover, the manner of staying away is often an unconscious choice of a person who subconsciously considers himself unworthy of a high position. Such people rarely enter into a discussion, considering their opinion is not so correct. They do not sit in the front rows, although they are better seen and heard. Of course, you should not always get ahead of yourself, but think about how much you love yourself when you want to take a seat on the sidelines again.
   
   
   
   
   
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4. Loves to indulge.
   If someone thinks that indulging in short-term desires is a manifestation of self-love, he is mistaken. People with low self-esteem pamper themselves to raise this self-esteem, but they are more like a child who finds himself unattended in a candy store. True self-love is caring. For such a person, the main jewels are his mind and body, in which he constantly invests. It is through self-love that a person gains independence from harmful weaknesses.
   
   
   
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5. Strictly treats himself.
   A loving person knows how to find a middle ground - he works on himself disciplinedly and at the same time does not deny himself pleasure. And when you're going to follow a strict regimen, ask yourself, "Am I doing this out of self-care or because it's the right thing to do?" You can't love the rules more than you do, right? You can build a strict schedule and follow it, blaming yourself for every weakness. And you can live in harmony, doing useful things and enjoying life. It is only about how a person treats himself.
   
   
   
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Being nice to yourself. The key to successful solution of any life problems. Loving people are able not only to defend their interests, but also respect others, which allows you to establish a harmonious personal life. If you cannot be happy yourself, how can you make others happy?