What to remember about the wedding Bashny.Net

The family boat crashed into the... This happens and, as practice shows, very often. On the wedding day, newlyweds think that happiness will be eternal, but the statistics are merciless. At least half of marriages break down and fail. And if the legal side of this issue is more or less clear, then the religious side leaves questions.





Is it possible to debunk? How does the church feel about that? Editorial "Site" He shares with you the views of the priests.

The Church and the clergy take the sacrament of the wedding very seriously. This is not just an outdated tradition, but a promise, a sacred oath, made before the Lord. You have sworn to love your whole life, and a year later you decide that this is not for you. How serious and sincere were these vows?

The priests do not recognize the word debunking. Not even because it has some philological incorrectness, but rather because it contains a false attitude towards the sacrament of marriage. He got married, divorced, and divorced. Everything is mundane, simple and no problem.





Only the church sees it differently. The collapse of the Christian family is a tragedy. God conceived the family as a lifelong union. “I tell you, whoever divorces his wife not for adultery, and marries another, commits adultery; and he who marries a divorced woman commits adultery.”

The family in Christianity is a small church whose mission is to save everyone it unites. To save by the power of love for one another and for the Lord. Therefore, the Church does not know divorce as the return of premarital freedom to each other. Accordingly, there is no rite of debunking.





However, there are unfortunate cases when people destroyed their marriage and their lives together. You can't turn a blind eye to that either. Ultimately, guided by the Lord’s words, the church recognized a number of reasons why marriage could be considered broken. There are few of them, but you will not find more significant ones.





Reasons for "debunking"

1. Cheating on a husband or wife.
2. Venereal diseases, AIDS.
3. Alcoholism or drug addiction with medical confirmation.
4. The presence of mental illnesses.
5. A change of faith
6. Getting married again.
7. Committing a crime.
8. Absence for more than five years.
9. Abortion without the knowledge of the husband.

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Agree, these are very sad reasons. I don’t want this to become a reality for anyone, but it happens. What should I do if this happens? Pray, pray a lot and sincerely pray. If it was not possible to save the family, then about further happy life and family happiness.

When prayer has reached its goal and you have found someone with whom you want to go on in life and seal the union before the Lord, go to the temple. There will prompt the whole procedure and explain how to apply for remarriage. This is an important decision for the church, so only a bishop can make it.





The right to remarry can only be obtained by those who are not responsible for the breakup of the first family. If there is a significant reason (one of the list), most likely the permission will be. But it’s not just “debunking,” it’s remarriage. Do you feel the difference? Not freedom, but a new family, a small church.





Can I get married? A second time? The Church allows this, but if the spouses are remarried, the wedding is performed by the “second rank”, without laying crowns. Again, no debunking, but the mystery of the wedding for a new family. That’s all you need to know and understand about it.

Earlier we told how the wedding ceremony takes place and what it is.

Also, do not forget to go to communion and confession. This is another important sacrament that needs to be properly prepared for.