Who should give money to a mother-in-law when she looks after children all summer?

It is good, for example, when there is a camp. Identified the child, and only on weekends you come to see how things are. I think you can do something similar with Grandma, but then childcare It falls on her fragile shoulders. Here you can easily catch stress, especially when there are five tomboys and one grandmother.



But we want to tell a little different story. Grandma always helps out, but what do we do about the same grandmother? And here's the editorial. "Site" I'll tell you about it. I wonder if anyone will see themselves in this story or not at all?

The care of children is what determines consciousness. That's what the classic said. How we think and perceive the world depends on everything. quality. And parenting, by the way, too. It would seem, well, so what if the grandmother (she is also a mother-in-law) looks after the children. So that's the problem. Sometimes simple things are very important. And they do.



“We can’t afford camp right now, it’s too expensive. We agreed with my mother-in-law that we would leave the little ones for her holidays. When school, classes, it is normal, they have something to do and my husband and I make sure that they learn to organize themselves. But this summer is a disaster. No lessons, so they go crazy.

So they sent them to their mother-in-law in the village. Good thing she's in the big house and agreed to help us out. After all, everything is under supervision. Of course, we wouldn’t burden her, but this is singularity Protect them from boredom and doing nothing. Even though they're crying, they have nothing to do here. It's okay, I'm telling you, you're gonna have fun. Help Grandma in the garden.



But that's not the point. Every week we load the car with different harches and drive there. The pension of the mother-in-law with a gulkin nose, and there are still growing gloats on her neck. In general, we do not leave them without products. I'm trying to cook something. Besides, we just give money. Not so much, of course, as in the camp, but still. We're trying to ease that burden.

And then my husband's brother got into it. He called his mother-in-law and said he would bring his two. Can she say no to him? Of course not. Nana weekend Grandma already has four. Only the brother acted very simply: brought the children, unloaded, and be healthy. Okay, one older, like ours, about the age. The other one has four. He's got eyes on him.



But that's not even the point. My brother left no money or food. Just loaded up the little ones and was. And they want yogurt, chocolate, and butter. Of course, the grandmother divides our products into all, she will not give ours, and they will not? A small, four-year-old, generally different menu has to be selected.

The mother-in-law is silent, says nothing, but we see that she does not have enough to feed this brigade in a modern way and constantly provide Coca-Cola. We bring food and leave money. And it goes like this for two weeks, then three, and then a month. And the husband's brother and wife are not even interested in how there is and what the baby has.



In the end, I couldn’t stand it and called him. I say, my dear, your children probably eat air. Why did you put it on your mom and not give me a dime for maintenance? Or do you think that if we eat there, yours too? And he says, "What kind of grandmother is she if she can't feed her kids?" Only times have changed. Earlier. glass Clapped with the edge of bread and free. Now serve the delicacies.”

From the editorial board of Humans, if you should, Grandma should help. After all, now is a completely different care and requirements. Yeah. baby: then they won't, they won't. We are waiting for your comment on this. Should mother-in-law bring groceries and give money if the grandchildren are vacationing with her in the summer or will it be okay to cope somehow?



Childcare - it's not an easy task. Jet kids take up so much energy that it's better to just brush it off and send it to camp. Read our article on how to help your child become more independent, so that your grandmother was a little easier. Thank you for staying with us!