A touching story of a mother who no longer needs her adult children

For mothers, growing up is often a tragedy. When we put all our love and care into a child, we hope that they will always be there. But it's not. They need to move on, build their lives. Today's edition. "Site" He wants to share with you a story about grown-up children and a mother they don’t need.



About adult children I have three children. Everyone has left their father’s house and gone in search of happiness. My son went abroad a long time ago. I haven't seen him since. He got married there, and the kids showed up. I only saw them in a photograph. He doesn't have time to come. We talk on the phone, of course, but I would like to see my grandchildren, meet my daughter-in-law.

The older daughter was also well placed. Married, raising a daughter, building a career. I've got her fighting, you can't tell. She and her husband rarely come here. They bought an apartment recently. I don't feel bad for this daughter. I'm worried about the little one.



Ira somehow couldn't settle down in life. She got married early and got pregnant immediately. Her husband was either too young or just a bad boy. He left them after two years. Then she left her grandson on me, and she went to the city to settle down. I finished school, went to work as a seamstress. A year and a half later, she took the baby.

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I have to tell my daughter how much I miss them. I want to communicate more, see more often. So I decided to go to the holidays with my youngest daughter. I haven't seen them with my grandson in three years. Is that possible? Loaded with my husband the full torso of the hotel, and I went on the road. It's hard to be lucky, the years are not the same, but what can you do, without guests there is no way.

I was thinking about hugging my daughter and kissing my grandson. I missed you so much! They didn't meet me at the station, so I went straight to them. My granddaughter really doesn't know, he swung like that. My daughter really met me coolly. Said she couldn't meet me because she's getting ready for the guests.



I arrived on Saturday night and my daughter had guests on Sunday. She cooked a lot of things, she set the table. Her friends and husbands came to see her. My daughter blossomed and started running around. When it came time to sit down at the table, my daughter, with a confused smile, said to me, “Mom, you’re not going to sit with us, are you?” You're not interested in young people.

To avoid embarrassing her in front of friends, I smiled and said I really didn’t want to. I'm going for a walk so I don't get in the way. I have a lump in my throat. I packed up and went outside. Only the city I do not know, and sat all day on the bench at the entrance. Good thing it was a sunny day.



When I came back in the evening, my daughter asked me how long I had been here. I said I was planning to stay for a week. She curled and said that she could not, because she was going to go with her grandson to the dacha to friends. The next day I went home.

I was sitting on the train thinking about how quickly life flew by. How quickly we were no longer needed by our children. Growing them up, putting love, care, warmth into them, and now they don't even want to see us. They don’t need me, they don’t need me.



This is a story about adult children. This story touched us to the core. It's a shame it came out like this. Of course, children should not stay with their parents all their lives, but they should not be forgotten at all. We understand the mother's feelings.

Probably, every mother in one way or another difficult experiences the growing up of children. But you have to take it for granted and move on. Do you communicate closely with your adult children?