I laugh when I hear stories about a happy marriage with a foreigner.

Marriage with a foreigner seems to our women the embodiment of a fairy tale. It’s as if a foreigner is a tall, handsome man with luxurious hair who came to pick you up to his three-story cottage and sprinkle diamonds from head to toe. The reality is different. Sometimes a woman romanticizes her boyfriend from another country and thinks that he is her destiny. Let me tell you right away: there are not enough millionaires for everyone. As much as we would like to believe in fairy tales and dream of a luxurious life, reality very painfully drops us, vulnerable and sensitive women, from an imaginary rainbow to their native raw land.



Marriage with a foreigner is fine, but not all women are so mercantile. And still, mutual love with a Frenchman seems romantic and exciting, even if he is unable to provide for himself. Somehow, foreigners in our country seem rich by default, but when you decide to get married and move home to your beloved, you can get very upset. Let's talk about the pros and cons of marrying a foreigner.



Many people are attracted by moving to another country, and if you get married, you can get citizenship. A new country is a new perspective for personal growth, new impressions and development.



Our men are spoiled by the attention of women, besides, we have fewer men than women. Therefore, men are sure that their chosen ones will not go anywhere. But foreigners are raised differently. Since childhood, they know that they have equal rights with women, therefore they respect them and treat their lovers more carefully. I can't help but like it.



If the spouse is a citizen of one of the developed countries, a woman can count on a high level of social security, medicine, housing conditions. But if the lover is not European, in such a relationship in terms of living standards will be more disadvantages than pluses.



Getting married and staying in another country is also very risky. In a foreign country, it is important to know your rights and obligations, to study the laws. Legal illiteracy poses many challenges in the future. If you and your groom planned to draw up a prenuptial agreement, it is better to do it immediately, discuss all the details.



If children are married in another country, they automatically become citizens of the country in which they were born. In case of divorce, there is a huge risk of returning home without children.
The language barrier makes it difficult to communicate with people. Without knowledge of the language, a woman will not be able to get a job and take care of herself. Which means she'll be totally dependent on her husband, which isn't good. You never know how life will turn out, and it is better to be ready for anything. And even with knowledge of the language, there is no guarantee that you will work in the specialty without an international diploma.



In another country you have to start all over again. It will be very difficult to remain without relatives and friends, it will be difficult to adapt and make new acquaintances. And traditions and holidays are a separate topic, it should be studied along with the laws of the country.



Often there are situations when foreigners promise to pass all the stars from heaven, and when a girl gets married and finds herself in a foreign country, she can become only a servant of her husband without the right to vote. And that happens.



And finally, our people, when they move to another country in search of a better life, for many years they cannot get used to a different mentality. They miss their native land, friends, relatives. Marriage with a foreigner is very interesting, romantic and exciting. And also very scary, incomprehensible and unfortunately it is not forever.