What is different from other children who were not taken to kindergarten?

Kindergarten attendance It’s as normal as going to school. At least that was the case before. Today, many parents seriously think about whether it is necessary to send a child to a kindergarten or whether it is worth considering some other options for pastime for him.

And today's edition. "Site" It is important to consider whether a child should attend kindergarten. And also note what features appear in children who never went to kindergarten.



Visiting kindergarten allows parents to have more free time. But what does that give the child? Experts note that first of all it is necessary that the child had the opportunity to communicate with peers, and also learned to build relationships with other adult people – educators, not only with mom and dad.



And socialize The child begins at the age of three, and with age the need for communication only increases. In addition, we must not forget that the child discovers the rules of behavior and learns to observe them. He is familiar with discipline. And no matter what bad associations this word causes, but still be able to adhere to generally accepted rules in society, the baby is necessary.

In kindergarten, the child will be able to develop himself intellectually and physically. If at home he spends days playing with a tablet or watching TV, even the standard educational program of the state kindergarten will give him much more. He will learn to sculpt, draw, sing, do exercises. If you can find a kindergarten with a high-quality educational program, the baby will be even more interesting!



Can we do without kindergarten? Experts believe that the main difficulty in home education is not physical or intellectual development. In these areas, caring and educated parents can give even more than in any kindergarten. The most difficult thing is to develop a child in social terms.



Therefore, you will have to figure out how to organize regular communication of the child with peers and other adults (besides parents). It can be some kind of club, section or game group.

Perhaps you should leave the child with grandparents. You can arrange with someone close friends who also have children, so that your baby from time to time will stay with them. Of course, you can not give the child just to whom. But you should not limit your world to yourself.

The optimal age for such a “coming out” is 4 years. Do not listen to those who say that earlier is better. When absolutely necessary, children were given to a nursery in a year and a half. But for the child it is stress, from which he can not yet protect himself. As a result, this causes a deterioration in his development emotionally, physically, intellectually.



Why do parents ignore kindergarten? “The eldest daughter did not go to kindergarten. I decided the younger ones shouldn't go there either. This belief became even stronger when I watched my Olya, as well as the children of friends who also did not attend kindergarten. By the way, there were many among daughter friends. We were. more easily“Than with children who are in kindergarten all day long,” says a young mother.

“We met some on the street, my daughter met others in the section, and others were the children of my friends. And the problems of all these “home” children in school in terms of academic performance did not arise. However, I have noted an interesting feature.”

“The point is that these children are more independent. They always know, What to do with yourself and your peers. And without the help of adults. Children who attend kindergarten are more passive. They are waiting for adults to offer them a schedule of activities.”

“It is curious to observe that when a group of children gathers, those who did not go to kindergarten are usually the main backers. Of course, it happens differently, but rarely. It makes itself known that in kindergarten children can not freely choose their classes and are forced to play on a schedule. I'm not saying it's too bad. But suppression “It’s scary,” the woman shared.



Of course, any model has its advantages, and therefore will find its supporters. Children after kindergarten They are likely to adapt to school with less stress. Children after home education, in which parents have invested a lot of effort, will certainly perform well in school. Which option do you prefer and why?