The story of the mother who took the former son-in-law under the wing

Early marriagesDivorce is a common occurrence in the modern world. There are many reasons for this. For example, the newlyweds did not agree on the characters and realized that they were in a hurry. Sometimes trouble comes from where you don’t expect it.



The story we're going to tell you happened to our reader. We were shocked when we heard everything firsthand. Someone will call it. family tragedySomeone is an instructive lesson. But we hope this story resonates in your heart.

Early marriages: I got married at 18. I thought it was love for life. But my mother was initially against marriage. She told me to wait, get an education and get a job. Maybe Mom just didn't want me to follow in her footsteps?

She's an early bird, she gave birth to me when she was 17. My father did not marry my mother, and when I was 1.5 years old, my father left to work and disappeared. My mother raised me alone, lucky that my grandparents were on the pick-up. But, of course, it was very hard. I think my mother often regretted having a baby so early and derailed her youth.



When I introduced my mother to Sergey, she did not like him immediately. First of all, she was confused by the age difference, I was 7 years younger than him. Secondly, Sergey was divorced. He didn’t have his own apartment or a good salary. Probably not the kind of son-in-law my mother wanted.

But I did not listen to my mother and went to live in a rented apartment with Sergei. A few months later, we signed. A year later, I got pregnant. When my mother found out about this, she began to insist on abortion. “You have neither housing nor a stable income. And I can't help you in any case. Take some time, get an education and get a job. And there are already children can have, the mother insisted.

Seryozh’s problem was not embarrassed, he really wanted children and got used to life’s adversity. But I began to doubt and decided to have an abortion. After the operation, I had to stay in the hospital. Sergey was so angry that he didn't even come to me. And when I got home, I found out my husband was filing for divorce. In a terrible state, I returned to live with my mother.



No matter how hard I tried, Seryozha did not want to forgive me. My mother asked me to change my environment and move. My aunt lived in a nearby town. She gladly agreed to take me in and help me find a job. You didn't. After a few months as secretary, I was able to rent a small apartment. A year later, I met Misha and married him.

I hardly ever visited my mother. But my mother, on the contrary, traveled very often, loved to visit us. My mother really liked the bear. And this is not surprising, because he earned well, we lived in his apartment, and he really loved me. We really couldn’t have children. I didn’t want to tell my husband about the abortion.

My husband and I decided to visit my mother. We went without warning and wanted to make a surprise. And it was successful, not for my mother, but for me and Mishka. When the door of the apartment where I grew up opened, I almost fainted.



On the doorstep was my ex-husband, dressed domestically. As it turned out, when I went to live with my aunt, my mother and Sergey got together! They have been living together in our house ever since. That's why my mother came to us so often. She just didn't want me to do it.

Of course I was shocked. Misha didn't know how to behave either. What are you gonna do? We decided to wait for our mother outside. When she came, I filled her with questions. I was trying to figure out what was going on. But my mother was impregnable: Olesya, understand, I finally found true love. Sergey found a great job, respects and loves me. If you don't like it, you don't have to come back.



© Freepik I never thought my mom would do that. But sometimes life is unpredictable. Since then, I have not been to my parents’ home. ?

We can hardly put ourselves in the place of the main character. But let us dare to draw a few conclusions. First, those who decide on early marriages, not always approach it consciously. In principle, people tend to make mistakes. And if they have little life experience, then even more so.



Secondly, the younger a person is, the greater the influence on him parents can have. Of course, it's individual. But that's often what happens. And this is confirmed by a case from history. She would not have had an abortion if not for her mother’s advice. And now absolutely no one can guarantee that the main character will be able to have a child.

Why do you think? early marriage end in divorce? It will be interesting to discuss this topic in the comments. Wait for you downstairs!