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Why three kids won't stop a husband moving toward divorce like a steam locomotive
The situation in which the mother of three children found herself will knock out any woman. You’ve been living with people for years and you have kids. And then the husband is tired of the role of an exemplary family man and a father of many children. Our reader, in despair, told her story, hoping for some advice. Do you know how to behave in such a situation?
I never thought a man could leave a family with children. Even when feelings between a man and a woman fade, people in most cases stay together so that the child grows up in a full family. In 8 years of marriage, we’ve had a lot together. I built a house and had three children.
I always wanted a big family, and my husband was only happy when he found out I was expecting my third child. The problem is that he works abroad. He comes every few months to see you. Yes, I am sitting alone with small children, and it is very difficult for me. I understand that my husband went to work for the family, so that the children did not need anything. I had my third child a month ago and my husband arrived immediately. There were so many unsolved questions that in the turmoil I didn’t notice that my husband was somehow detached.
The first few days after arriving, everything was fine. We tried to communicate on abstract topics, I didn't ask why he's been calling and writing less lately. A week later he left on business and texted me saying he didn’t love me anymore, asked for a divorce.
Difficult situation: "I didn't agree and then he said he would just leave me because he had another woman abroad." My husband stopped loving me and didn’t want to live together. He didn't give up on kids, but how am I going to be alone with three kids? Until the baby is a year old, we will not get a divorce, and until then I do not know what to think about, how to proceed. I don't think I can hold him.”
Is it possible to leave your wife and three children to their fate? The world is not without kind people, but moral support is very important for all of us. In such a situation, it is important to do everything in order to stay afloat and raise your children. Many do not succeed, they go into depression, depress themselves with bad habits. Let us hope that this courageous woman will cope with a sharp turn of fate and overcome all obstacles in her life path. What would you advise a mother in such a situation? We would appreciate any advice.
I never thought a man could leave a family with children. Even when feelings between a man and a woman fade, people in most cases stay together so that the child grows up in a full family. In 8 years of marriage, we’ve had a lot together. I built a house and had three children.
I always wanted a big family, and my husband was only happy when he found out I was expecting my third child. The problem is that he works abroad. He comes every few months to see you. Yes, I am sitting alone with small children, and it is very difficult for me. I understand that my husband went to work for the family, so that the children did not need anything. I had my third child a month ago and my husband arrived immediately. There were so many unsolved questions that in the turmoil I didn’t notice that my husband was somehow detached.
The first few days after arriving, everything was fine. We tried to communicate on abstract topics, I didn't ask why he's been calling and writing less lately. A week later he left on business and texted me saying he didn’t love me anymore, asked for a divorce.
Difficult situation: "I didn't agree and then he said he would just leave me because he had another woman abroad." My husband stopped loving me and didn’t want to live together. He didn't give up on kids, but how am I going to be alone with three kids? Until the baby is a year old, we will not get a divorce, and until then I do not know what to think about, how to proceed. I don't think I can hold him.”
Is it possible to leave your wife and three children to their fate? The world is not without kind people, but moral support is very important for all of us. In such a situation, it is important to do everything in order to stay afloat and raise your children. Many do not succeed, they go into depression, depress themselves with bad habits. Let us hope that this courageous woman will cope with a sharp turn of fate and overcome all obstacles in her life path. What would you advise a mother in such a situation? We would appreciate any advice.
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