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To love a child

The task of parents is to raise an adult, healthy person, capable to implement all their own needs without parental involvement

The benefit is the energy of your love. Blessing – filling the words to the children of the energies of love. At the same time, words are empty when no action — when they are not confirmed in practice.





One of the most common parental misconceptions is that torodial confuse love with indulgence of the whims of the child.

To love a child is to provide him healthy physical growth and to help him to realize psychological needs.

The needs of any child is simple:

• is parent adoption
• quality contact with the parents
• creating and maintaining personal boundaries

Acceptance is when you allow the child to be what he is, not the way you want or you would like it to be. The adoption of this trust to the election of the child, is accompanied by its development and not the imposition of education.
The child should not be educated, should educate yourself to be a worthy example for your baby. In fact the best way of education is the parent personal example.

The blessing of a child is your faith in him and in him, without a shadow of a doubt. This faith is the strongest incentive for the development of the child in the future.

Quality contact with a parent is when your interactions honest, pure and beautiful in the end.

This ability to be honest and fair decision in any situation, not just the usual suppression of the views of the child their parental authority.

This ability to keep the child of promise.

Is the ability to give my child clean time and attention.

When you devote yourself completely-only interaction or communication with him. Contact quality is when you give each other pleasure in your pastime.

Creating and maintaining personal boundaries is your respect for the child's personality, his opinions and desires. Is the ability to negotiate and to respect the space and time your child.
Is the ability to trust the child. This ability to create conditions for his personal development.



If you are taking your child, your interactions are filled with mutual trust and respect, with him growing and developing — this is enough to ensure that he grew up a harmonious personality. But if you spoil your child, hyperopia it, fill up the toys, drive in all the sections and circles, which only can fulfill his every whim and ignore the above needs, it is a great chance to grow selfish and infantile, not able to do without you.

The task of parents – by the example of their happy relationship in the family, to grow adult, healthy person, capable to implement all their own needs without parental involvement. Bless your children for a happy life! published

 

Author: Tatiana Savenko

P. S. And remember, just changing your mind - together we change the world! ©

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