What unconscious gestures can tell us about us

As much as we want to control our gestures and facial expressions, doing so is almost impossible. Most of it happens unconsciously, and we ourselves do not notice how we give out all the background.

Website I have collected for you a few secrets of experts that will help not only to better understand the interlocutor, but also yourself.



Boring view



If your interlocutor constantly commits obsessive actions, for example, knocks his fingers on the table, stretches, snaps his joints or pulls his foot, know: before you restless.

Patience, silence and focus are not about him. He's somewhere in his mind, but clearly not with you.

Nervousness



When your interlocutor covers the face or part of it with his hand, it means that he is currently experiencing difficulty or is immersed in thoughts.Trying to hide his condition.

But the movement of the hand on the forehead, as if “washing sweat”, indicates that a person is trying to distance himself from bad thoughts andconcentrate.

Hands on the hips



If your partner’s hands are on the hip, heFeels the need to strengthen, demonstrate their firmness and superiority. It's a challenge on his part. This is often simply compensated. weakness.

If the hands lie calmly on the hips, and the person sits closer to the edge of the chair, then he is in a good mood and positively assesses everything that is happening.

Confident posture



A hand lying carelessly in the pocket of a jacket or jeans with a thumb outwards, says:inner confidence. In women, this is also indicated by the hand, which slowly and gracefully rises to the neck.

Handshake



A simple handshake can say a lot about the person in front of you. For example, when a person shakes your hand and turns it so that it is on top of you, he or she willTrying to show your superiority to you.. If he puts his hand up his palm, then heready to assume a subordinate position.

Hand position



Clutched hands are often accompanied by a smile, but in fact mean something else. Suppression, insecurity, hostilityThese are the main companions of this gesture. Maybe a human. ponder. Your hands are a barrier between you and your partner.

Open pose



Want to know how the negotiations are going? This will also tell the gestures of your interlocutor. During good negotiations Their participants unbutton their jackets, straighten their legs and move to the edge of the chair, trying to be closer to the interlocutor opposite.

Dispersion



But if a person constantly collects or shakes off the villi from his clothes, this is a sure sign that he is completely free. I don’t like everything that is said here.. Even if he says he totally agrees.

Rubbing the earlobe is also a bad sign. Your interlocutor. He wants to end the conversation and leave as soon as possible..

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