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The appearance of resentment

Resentment is a form of aggression, a manifestation of envy and hatred of others due to feelings of anger, frustration someone specific or the world for real or imaginary suffering.

It's hard to describe the offense from the position of mere emotion. In connection with the specificity of this emotion, its orientation to the object, we believe more constructively to describe the offense in terms of the theory of object relations.





What happens in that case, if parents do not set a child gives him the pleasure of a relationship if contact with parents is painful for the child? Displeasure will arise as a reaction to the lack of connections, contacts and interaction with parents.

The mother is the most important object for most of us, with her before we all meet, the longest spend the first months and years of life. Quite confident we can talk about the dominant importance of the relationship with the mother for most of us.

The emergence of grievances is possible only against the background of love or attachment to the object. The importance of the object is one of the main conditions for the occurrence of this emotion.

Another condition for the appearance of resentment or disappointment is the inconsistency of the actions or behavior of the object expectations of the subject. In this case, the offense occurs as an emotional response to the distance of the object.published

 

Author: Sergey Kulakov

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