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The magic word – "NO"
It turns out that the magic word "NO" and not "please".
Many problems can be avoided if you learn how to refuse people. Not spending time in empty conversation "out of courtesy". Not to give money when You don't want to do that. It is far better than to suffer over whether will return or not.
a scene from the movie "the adventures of Pinocchio"
Give what you can give, and debt do not give.
Goethe said: "I Want to lose a friend – give him money in debt."
I discovered an interesting phenomenon. When people deny, his self esteem increases, increases self-respect.
People are afraid to say no. And you know why? They are afraid not to like!
And will not please everyone. Learn to calmly endure other people's negative emotions about Your refusal. If you just say "NO", the failure to argue it will be easier. Deny easily.
©Natalia Grace
Source: /users/1077
Many problems can be avoided if you learn how to refuse people. Not spending time in empty conversation "out of courtesy". Not to give money when You don't want to do that. It is far better than to suffer over whether will return or not.
a scene from the movie "the adventures of Pinocchio"
Give what you can give, and debt do not give.
Goethe said: "I Want to lose a friend – give him money in debt."
I discovered an interesting phenomenon. When people deny, his self esteem increases, increases self-respect.
People are afraid to say no. And you know why? They are afraid not to like!
And will not please everyone. Learn to calmly endure other people's negative emotions about Your refusal. If you just say "NO", the failure to argue it will be easier. Deny easily.
©Natalia Grace
Source: /users/1077
